My wife objected to the adjective "feminized" here and she's probably right, but the larger point stands. There are two types of people in the world: those who see tradeoffs everywhere in public policy--Thomas Sowell: There are no solutions, only tradeoffs--and those who don't. One of the most vicious criticisms of the late Charlie Kirk is that he was thrilled for Americans to have guns even if some people would be shot. As this longer excerpt of what he said makes clear, that wasn't a crazy desire.