CNLP 358: Sam Collier on Growing Up Black in America, What it Takes to Make it in a White World, and How Whites Can Use Their Influence to Help Bring About Racial Reconciliation

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Author, podcaster and pastor Sam Collier, talks about what it was like growing up in the 90s and early 2000s in Black America, what it takes to make it in a white world, and how whites can use their influence to bring about racial reconciliation.

Sam talks about how to navigate the backlash and the kind of change anyone can make to make the world (and the church) a more just place for black and brown people.

Welcome to Episode 358 of the podcastListen and access the show notes below or search for the Carey Nieuwhof Leadership Podcast on Apple Podcasts or wherever you get your podcasts and listen for free.

Plus, in this episode’s What I’m Thinking About segment, Carey talks about whether you should close or reopen your church with COVID-19 still on the rise.

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3 INSIGHTS FROM SAM

1. A black person’s experience is they need to work twice as hard as a white person to succeed in America

Growing up, Sam was surrounded by examples of African American freedom fighters who had made it out of poverty in spite of being black in America. Because of their examples, Sam knew that there was a way through all of the obstacles that come with being black in America. But just because there is a way out, doesn’t excuse the obstacles.

It’s wrong that Sam had to have the mindset of, “I know racism is still alive, I know prejudice is still alive, I know systemic oppression is still alive, but I can overcome it. I just have to work harder, so that’s what I’ll do.” But he did. That’s why he’s so excited about the racial reconciliation happening today.

2. Staying silent hurts more

There are a lot of white pastors and leaders who probably feel like their hands are tied when it comes to publicly talking about racism in America. You’re might even be one of them. It’s understandable. You’re afraid that if you speak up, you could lose your job, key donors, or get creamed on social media. So rather than speaking up publicly, you’ve decided to support the fight against racism privately.

Although he knows you mean well, Sam would say, “We need your voice now more than ever. Choosing to say nothing is not an option. And when I say it’s not an option, I’m not demanding you, I’m saying it doesn’t help us, it hurts. We need you.”

If you are afraid of losing people when you speak out, ask yourself, “What would God ask me to do with my influence?”

3. Privilege today is a result of systems set up in the 30’s, 40’s, 50’s, and 60’s

A lot of white people have a problem with the term “white privilege” because of the negative connotation that goes along with it. Sam thinks that “white advantage” is a less controversial way to describe it, so that’s how he chooses to talk about it. And here’s how he explains it:

White advantage in 2020 is the result of systems that were set up in the 1930’s, 40’s, 50’s, and 60’s that set up a system for white people to thrive and black people to fail. Back then, there were laws that were set up to keep black people from moving into certain neighborhoods, keep them out of certain schools, and not being able to get certain loans. All of this has ripple effects on black people today.

If we want to fix this problem, Sam thinks that we need to break the system, or heavily shock it.

For example, Sam had been working with an organization that had been on a multi-year journey of identifying systemic racism inside, and one day, Sam realized that they had just hired eight new employees that were all white. When he pointed this out to the CEO, he was mortified. So how did they break their system? They made a rule to only hire people of color for their next ten hires.

If we want to change deep systems, you need to take deep measures.

Quotes from Episode 358

God can take a mess and turn it into a miracle if you let him. @SamCollier Click To Tweet I can't tell you the amount of times I heard, 'You have to work twice as hard than a white person to succeed.' @SamCollier Click To Tweet Jesus is always running towards the mess and, as believers, we have to run towards anything that's separating us. @SamCollier Click To Tweet There are systems that were put in place a long time ago to favor white people that are still living today that no one has changed. So, now, we need to change it. @SamCollier Click To Tweet Whenever you stand up for the kingdom, you win. @SamCollier Click To Tweet You're going to take a hit anytime you stand up for what's right. @SamCollier Click To Tweet Ask yourself, ‘What is the price of influence?’ @SamCollier Click To Tweet I know racism is still alive, I know prejudice is still alive, I know systemic oppression is still alive, but I can overcome. I just have to work harder. @SamCollier Click To Tweet 30, 40 years from now when people look back, what we did about racial reconciliation will be more important than what we even did about Coronavirus. @cnieuwhof Click To Tweet Way too many leaders get wedded to their methods, and they forget or lose the mission. @cnieuwhof Click To Tweet Wisdom often shows itself in the form of restraint. @cnieuwhof Click To Tweet Ultimately, in leadership, your unwillingness to make a tough decision means the decision could be made for you. @cnieuwhof Click To Tweet

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Next Episode: Levi Lusko

In a very transparent and honest conversation, Fresh Life Church founder and bestselling author, Levi Lusko, comes back to the podcast and talks about dealing with adrenaline letdown after COVID hit, what the future church might look like, why he’s thinking his church will become a digital default church, and how digital can scale in a way the old model never could, even for small town churches.

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Carey Nieuwhof

Carey Nieuwhof is a best-selling leadership author, speaker, podcaster, former attorney, and church planter. He hosts one of today’s most influential leadership podcasts, and his online content is accessed by leaders over 1.5 million times a month. He speaks to leaders around the world about leadership, change, and personal growth.