Sexy Marriage Radio

Arousal vs Attraction #548

Wed, 01 Dec 2021 10:04:26 +0000

An email from a wife who wants to know if asking questions to her husband about his past struggle with porn will increase the temptation.

A voicemail from a wife wanting help understanding arousal and attraction.

On the Xtended version …

Pam and I work through a gridlock script from a member of the SMR Nation.

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Best Of SMR: Too Tired For Sex #547

Wed, 24 Nov 2021 10:04:53 +0000

A voicemail from a Rape Crisis Counselor concerned about one of our past messages of leading towards what you want in sex.

How do you spice up sex when trying to conceive? Dr. Laurie Mintz joins me to cover this email.

On the Xtended version …

A deeper conversation with Dr Mintz about her work helping women who are too tired for sex.

Find more of her work here – http://drlauriemintz.com/

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If I Do This Will You Do That #546

Wed, 17 Nov 2021 10:04:58 +0000

After our segment on BDSM in Episode #541 we received a couple of emails about how we totally missed the mark are came across as judgmental. Today we address this more.

A husband wants to rim his wife yet she's not comfortable with the act. She wants to go skydiving which he's not comfortable with. What about an exchange?

On the Xtended version ...

A role play of how to address gridlock issues, based from a segment in last week's Xtended content.

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Dealing With Breast Cancer #545

Wed, 10 Nov 2021 10:04:39 +0000

I'm joined by Dr Laurie Watson and we talk about how breast cancer impacts a couple's married life, sex life and desire - plus the journey for both spouses facing this battle.

Learn more about Dr Laurie here - https://www.foreplayrst.com/

On the Xtended version of today's show ...

Laurie and I talk about the yin and the yang of the energy in a couples sex life.

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Resentment #544

Wed, 03 Nov 2021 09:04:41 +0000

Today I'm joined by a colleague Dr Jennifer Finlayson-Fife and we talk about the marriages where everything seems to be great - except in one area. What's happening here?

Plus, how do you address resentment in marriage and life?

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Not Feeling Chosen #543

Wed, 27 Oct 2021 09:04:25 +0000

Two emails from wives who do not feel chosen in their marriages. One wife has trouble trusting because of this and past betrayals from her husband. The other wife is married to a man who says he wouldn't get married if he were to do it all over again.

On the Xtended version ...

With the huge volume of information and noise in our world, we talk about the benefits of an attention diet. And how to go on one.

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You Are Not Broken #542

Wed, 20 Oct 2021 09:04:16 +0000

I'm joined by Kelly Casperson, MD as we discuss the limiting beliefs many people have when it comes to their bodies and their abilities in sex and life.

To learn more about Dr Kelly visit her site - https://www.kellycaspersonmd.com/

On the Extended Version ...

Dr Kelly and I discuss where orgasms reside in the brain!

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Secrets Of Great Sex #541

Wed, 13 Oct 2021 09:04:13 +0000

This week we are celebrating SMR's 10 year anniversary!!!
On the Regular version of today's show ...

Some thank you's are in order as we have been on the air for 10 years now. Thank you to the SMRNation for showing up each week and speaking up about the topics and issues you want to learn more about.

An email from a listener curious about BDSM as a Christian couple.

On the Xtended version ...

What are the secrets of couples that have great sex? We will share 8.

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Sex As An Idol #540

Wed, 06 Oct 2021 09:04:53 +0000

Can sex be an idol. How would you know?

A dating couple want to know more about what options are there for birth control as they prepare for the marriage. The pill had too many side effects for the wife and she's concerned about condoms, even though her soon to be husband says he's fine with them.

A newlywed couple is averaging sex 2 times a month, not at all what she thought would be the case. Is there something wrong?

On the Xtended version ...

Could the higher desire/lower desire labels also be limiting to the people who find comfort in knowing they are one or the other in their marriage?

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Can’t Turn My Mind Off #539

Wed, 29 Sep 2021 09:04:02 +0000

I'm joined by Dr Emily Jamea as we discuss the distracted mind, or put another way - how to address the times when you can't turn off you mind.

Learn more about Dr Jamea on her site - https://emilyjamea.com/

On the Xtended version ...

Dr Emily and I discuss the dynamic in marriage where the wife is the higher desire spouse.

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All Things Are Permissible #538

Wed, 22 Sep 2021 09:04:38 +0000

A wife gets turned off when her husband wants to do some novel things in their sex life. How can she address him and the situations better?

A husband emails about a wife who has lost all desire and libido due to a medication she is on. How can her get her more engaged in their sex life so it doesn't feel one-sided?

On the Xtended version ...

There is a Scripture that says, All things are permissible, but not all things are beneficial. How does this apply to our marriage and sex life?

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When The Low Desire Initiates #537

Wed, 15 Sep 2021 09:04:28 +0000

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A husband is in a 2 year stretch of sexlessness. How can he get his wife, who is also miserable, on board with wanting to improve things?

On the Xtended version ...

What happens when the low desire spouse initiates sex, yet is shut down by their high desire spouse?

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Not Attracted To My Spouse #536

Wed, 08 Sep 2021 09:04:23 +0000

There is a cure for ticklishness. Plus this same cure works to create deeper erotic connections!

Two newlywed couples email us about issues they are having with sex - within the first year of their marriages.

On the Xtended version ...

A husband has no attraction towards his wife, and while he kinda thought this may be an issue while they were dating, their honeymoon confirmed it. What should he do now?

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Fantasies of a Third #535

Wed, 01 Sep 2021 11:04:05 +0000

A military wife wants to know how to encourage her husband to be interested in more romantic sex, oh, and she's the higher desire for all the other kinds of sex as well.

A wife parents different than her husband, and his manner of parenting is a real turn off sexually.

On the Xtended version ...

Our Instagram account got quite a bit of pushback over a post we ran about adding a third person to the bedroom. This is my response to the reactions.

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Are Women More Sexual Than Men? #534

Wed, 25 Aug 2021 11:04:06 +0000

A follow up from an email on last week's show.

A newlywed asks for tips to help prepare or avoid the issues that he hears other couples inevitably face in marriage.

A woman is experiencing some self-image issues and marital strife resulting from a botched breast reduction procedure.

Could it be that women are more sexual than men?

A couple both experience orgasms during sex regularly, yet the issue for the husband is how his wife achieves them.

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Too Quick Too Slow #533

Wed, 18 Aug 2021 11:04:15 +0000

A husband takes too long to orgasm during oral sex, and too quick during PV sex.

A wife wants help understanding how to help her husband address the length of time it takes him to climax.

A woman has been dating a Christian man for 9 years, who simply won't commit to marriage.

On the Xtended version ...

What do you do when one spouse wants to avail themselves to medical resources and vaccines and the other spouse is completely opposed?

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Consent #532

Wed, 11 Aug 2021 11:04:25 +0000

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A follow up email from a listener about dealing with guilt and resentment.

A question asking if a spouse who refuses to address their role in a sexless marriage is actually better termed as infidelity.

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We've received several emails and messages about how the aspect of consent plays out in marriage. Today we begin the conversation on this tricky subject.

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Best Of SMR: Missionary Position and Love Languages #531

Wed, 04 Aug 2021 11:04:14 +0000

A look back at one of our favorite episodes according to the Nation.

Two voicemails with some additional ideas to explore from a prior email from a husband who's wife only likes missionary position sex.

On the Xtended version ...

A discussion about how I believe the messages found in three popular marriage books, The 5 Love Languages, His Needs Her Needs, and Love And Respect, are used in the wrong ways.

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Delay Tactics #530

Wed, 28 Jul 2021 11:04:05 +0000

An email from a husband wondering why many marriage resources out there take the stance of it's the husbands fault.

A husband emails wanting to know if taking a break from pursuing sex with his lower desire wife would help reset things for them both.

On the Xtended version ...

Are there delay tactics used in marriage and sex to avoid things we don't want to participate in or follow through with?

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Crossdressing #529

Wed, 21 Jul 2021 11:04:27 +0000

An email from a member of the Nation adding to the conversation about how a HD Spouse can approach their LD Spouse better on the topic of sex.

A wife emails asking for how to handle resentment and guilt over how long it has taken to grow more confident sexually.

A husband emails wondering if his interest in wearing feminine underwear is a potential problem.

On the Xtended version ...

Part 4 of the Q and A that happens at the end of the SMR Getaway.

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Wife Won’t Let Husband Masturbate #528

Wed, 14 Jul 2021 11:04:25 +0000

An email from a wife whose husband says that if she would let him masturbate or look at porn he would be more interested in sex with her and would be able to finish more regularly.

Two emails from different wives wanting to know how to address when husbands have gained a lot of weight and have little interest in a healthier lifestyle.

On the Xtended version ...

Part 3 of the Q and A that happens at the end of the SMR Getaway. This time we go into questions like gridlock and books to help relationships.

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Rapid Fire with Longer Answers #527

Wed, 07 Jul 2021 11:04:09 +0000

We recorded an extended rapid fire episode while at the SMR Getaway, only this time we go more in depth with the answers.

On the Xtended version ...

Part 2 of the Q and A that happens at the end of the SMR Getaway. This time we go into some deep questions like betrayal and desire differences.

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Found My Husband’s Dildo #526

Wed, 30 Jun 2021 11:04:06 +0000

An email from a wife who feels stuck between faking it during sex or withholding and wants to know the best Biblical way to approach this in her marriage.

A wife emails because she found a dildo that her husband has been using while masturbating.

On the Xtended version ...

A recording of part of the Q&A time at this year's SMR Getaway.

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Best Of SMR: Oral Sex and Gagging #525

Wed, 23 Jun 2021 11:04:54 +0000

An email from a wife who gets nauseous and gags at the thought of her husband ejaculating into her mouth – yet he would really like to experience this with her.

And a voicemail from a new mom who wants to get the non-sexy images from childbirth and doctors out of her head to get sex going again with her husband.

On the Xtended version …

A look a some of the attitudes we can bring into marriage and relationships. Are you entitled in your marriage or is marriage designed to expose you more than you thought?

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Best Of SMR: Low Desire Wife #524

Wed, 16 Jun 2021 11:04:41 +0000

A past episode with Dr Jennifer Finlayson-Fife about the Higher Desire/Lower Desire dynamic. Specifically about how this often plays out for the lower desire wife.

On the Xtended version ...

Our conversation continues with Dr Jennifer and her research on the subject of religion and desire.

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Touch and Massage #523

Wed, 09 Jun 2021 11:04:59 +0000

A conversation with Denis Merkas of MELT: Couples Massage about how touch is so important in life and marriage. Take advantage of the first sale in 2 years here - Get MELT for Father's Day

On the Xtended version ...

A behind the scenes conversation with Denis about how MELT has impacted his life and what he's learned. Plus he turns the table on Dr Allan.

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Hostage Taking #522

Wed, 02 Jun 2021 11:04:11 +0000

An email from a newly-married wife who is interested in sex more in the evening while her husband in interested in the mornings. Plus, he masturbates regularly during the day.

A message from Instagram asking what kind of feedback we get from our willingness to talk frankly about sex and relationships.

On the Xtended version ...

A husband emails asking how to bring up the subject of sex when for 18 years it's been clear it's not something his wife will talk about.

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Rapid Fire: Newlywed, Oral, Talking and More #521

Wed, 26 May 2021 11:04:34 +0000

Today we try go rapid fire again and still don't get to all the questions submitted via Instagram. Want to follow us there? Please do: @sexymarriageradio

Just a hint of the topics we cover:

Oral sex, honeymoon tips, speaking up, anal sex, friends, talking about likes and a whole lot more!

On the Xtended version ...

We go more in-depth with more questions from IG only this time on sexual dreams, libido and cycles, moods, and toys.

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No Sex Allowed #520

Wed, 19 May 2021 11:04:52 +0000

A voicemail from a husband about their therapist's advice that the should not have sex for the next 4 months.

A husband emails about how his wife will not allow herself to have an orgasm.

An email from a soon to be divorced man wondering what he will do about his sex drive when single.

On the Xtended version ...

Retroactive jealously and judgment. And how do we view our spouse's past.

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Dominant or Submissive #519

Wed, 12 May 2021 11:04:50 +0000

An email from a wife who really wants her husband to explore and lead as a Dominant role in their sex life, although he is more of a Submissive.

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A husband wants to know how to extend the sex sessions with his wife when they only happen twice a year. They both are in a Two-Choice Dilemma.

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Telehealth Help and Desire Differences #518

Wed, 05 May 2021 11:04:33 +0000

How do you find a therapist or marriage coach in the age of telehealth? You can work with Dr Allan - for more info click here.

Guides mentioned in the show - Part 1, Part 2.

A lower desire wife emails wanting help getting her husband to understand her interest in her experiencing an orgasm during sex as well, not just him.

A wife in a sexless marriage wants to know how to get her husband interested in sex.

On the Xtended version ...

The benefits of boredom and routine and the small steps you can take create a better path forward.

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Tell Me About The Last Time You Had Sex #517

Wed, 28 Apr 2021 11:04:24 +0000

Everyone get the full show today.

I'm joined by Dr Ian Kerner as we discuss his new book So Tell Me About The Last Time You Had Sex.

To learn more about Ian visit his site - https://www.iankerner.com/

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Rapid Fire Q&A #516

Wed, 21 Apr 2021 11:04:50 +0000

Today we try something different. We cover lots of questions in rapid-fire style. All questions were submitted via Instagram. Want to follow us there? Please do: @sexymarriageradio

Just a hint of the topics we cover:

Oral sex, sizes, fetishes, first time and wedding night, talking about sex and a whole lot more!

On the Xtended version ...

We go more in-depth with more questions from IG only this time on threesomes, pain during sex, past trauma and abuse, and shame.

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Optimal Sexual Experiences #515

Wed, 14 Apr 2021 11:04:22 +0000

I'm joined by Dr Emily Jamea and we discuss her work on helping couples experience optimal levels of sex in their marriage.

To learn more about Emily visit her site - https://emilyjamea.com/

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Emily and I continue the conversation and move into the specifics about her research and the whys behind her findings.

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Lust #514

Wed, 07 Apr 2021 11:04:03 +0000

An email from a husband curious about all the penile enlargement and performance products promoted today.

A wife who has experienced pain in the beginning of their sex life but has now found a position that is pain free - now she's anxious about trying out new positions.

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We unpack the concept of lust as mentioned in Matthew 5:27-30.

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Edging #513

Wed, 31 Mar 2021 11:04:19 +0000

Bouncing your eyes is one way to avoid the temptations around us, but what about steering your energy as well?

An email from a husband who is wondering if ruining his orgasm would help his quick ejaculation issue.

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A wonderful tool for helping you determine your responsibilities in the issues you face in life.

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Snoring #512

Wed, 24 Mar 2021 11:04:09 +0000

A peek behind the curtain into how Pam and I address the issue of snoring, and the messages built into our moves.

An email from a husband who is the higher desire for sex but the lower desire for romance. Is that odd?

On the Xtended version ...

A recording of a talk Corey gave at church about how do I see myself and how does God see me?

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Moments of Meeting #511

Wed, 17 Mar 2021 11:04:41 +0000

How does a husband help his wife be more confident, while also helping his teenage daughter be less confident?

A husband is confident at work, yet struggles to being that same presence to home.

A higher desire wife struggles initiating due to fear of rejection and they both have struggled with masturbation throughout their lives.

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Moments of meeting. Perhaps this is a better way to frame what many of us are really looking for in marriage and life.

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We Aren’t Good Kissers #510

Wed, 10 Mar 2021 12:04:37 +0000

A voicemail from a wife who wants to connect better with her husband through kissing, but they have trouble doing so.

An email about the connection between higher desire vs lower desire and spontaneous drive vs responsive drive.

Is solo sex harmful to your health? What about sex outside of marriage?

A husband can't shake his desire to explore a more free lifestyle now that marriage and kids and responsibilities have taken over his life.

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My Own Taste #509

Wed, 03 Mar 2021 12:04:33 +0000

An email from a higher desire husband looking to not take the rejections so personal from his lower desire wife.

A husband wants to go down on his wife after they've had intercourse, yet isn't so sure.

A wife of a video game husband wants to know how to be more solid in confronting the amount of time he plays online and disconnects from the family life.

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Creating a more solid sense of self and the art of self-validation.

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Three Types Of Sex #508

Wed, 24 Feb 2021 12:04:06 +0000

I'm joined by Irene Fehr and we have a conversation about the three types of sex she believe all couples experience in marriage.

To learn more about Irene visit her site - https://www.irenefehr.com/

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Irene and I continue the conversation and move into the specifics of how you can create better connection in sex.

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Next Wisest Step #507

Wed, 17 Feb 2021 12:04:19 +0000

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Pam and I have a coffee shop conversation about when you're faced with choices where there really isn't right or wrong yet, what's the best wise step?

An email from a listener asking about ideas to help address issues when there are size differences between spouses.

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A great quote from Charles Cooley - "I am not who you think I am, I am not who I think I am, I am who I think you think I am."

Let's unpack.

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Fantasies About A Wife’s Past #506

Wed, 10 Feb 2021 12:04:54 +0000

A listener joins me on the air to work through why he fantasizes so much about his wife's past sexual encounters.

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We continue the conversation about fantasies but turn it towards the topics of self-control and desire.

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Allergic to Sex #505

Wed, 03 Feb 2021 12:04:38 +0000

An email from a couple who wonder if allergens can be passed through semen and what are steps to take to prevent this from affecting his wife.

Another discussion of the higher desire and lower desire dilemma in married sex.

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An email from a husband who is really turned on by his wife's past sexual encounters. Is this wrong or sinful?

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Rather Leave than Cheat #504

Wed, 27 Jan 2021 12:04:38 +0000

A husband feels so stuck in a marriage with really lousy sex that's he's thinking of leaving because he's afraid he'll cheat.

Another husband emails asking for our thoughts on times when there is expected sex and the amount of pressure his wife feels during those times.

On the Xtended version ...

Intimacy in marriage part 4. Why listening is so hard when building more intimacy.

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Lazy Lover #503

Wed, 20 Jan 2021 12:04:48 +0000

A voicemail from a husband with three questions about his marriage.

An email from a newer into marriage couple asking for resources to help spice things up.

An email from a wife whose husband has turned into a lazy lover since introducing some sex toys into their encounters together.

On the Xtended version ...

How to address the conflict and struggle that comes with being more intimate with your spouse.

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Purity Movements #502

Wed, 13 Jan 2021 12:04:05 +0000

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An email from a husband who married a woman who was married before but he married as a virgin in his 40s.

What are our thoughts on the Purity Movements that many of us grew up in and its impact on our married lives as adults.

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Dealing with roommate syndrome in marriage.

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Self Exploration #501

Wed, 06 Jan 2021 12:04:33 +0000

As we enter into 2021 - what are your 3 Words to help shape your year?

An email from a husband, on behalf of his wife, asking about how to venture into the world of self-exploration and sex toys.

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Perhaps there is a better definition for intimacy. And this definition could change everything.

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Let’s Celebrate 500 Episodes #500

Wed, 30 Dec 2020 12:04:47 +0000

Several members of the SMR Nation join Pam and I as we celebrate 500 episodes. Come enjoy the party!

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What have we learned from hosting over 500 episodes of hosting SMR?

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Simple Dailies #499

Wed, 23 Dec 2020 12:04:55 +0000

A wife emails us to point out that we have missed the boat when it comes to husbands letting themselves go physically and how that impacts sex.

An email from a newlywed with a couple of questions about how to last longer and how to change up the order of things when sex is happening.

On the Xtended version ...

What are some simple things we can do each and every day to increase our connection in marriage and life?

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Doing It Wrong? #498

Wed, 16 Dec 2020 12:04:54 +0000

Dr Stephen Snyder joins me again to talk about all things sex. Namely, what if we're doing it all wrong?

To learn more about Dr Snyder check out his site https://www.sexualityresource.com/

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Stephen and I shift the conversation to the statement he's made before about how better communication can ruin sex.

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Being Dangerous #497

Wed, 09 Dec 2020 12:04:17 +0000

Tripp Lanier, the host of The New Man Podcast, joins me today to talk about how playing it safe in life will dampen, if not destroy passion and energy in life and marriage.

Hear more from Tripp here https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/

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Tripp and I continue the conversation about living a dangerous life and how this has played out in Tripp's personal life.

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Complaint or Request #496

Wed, 02 Dec 2020 12:04:06 +0000

Pam and I have a Coffee Shop Conversation about the question: How often are complaints by your spouse heard as a request?

An email from a husband who repeatedly is looking for ways to get his wife interested in sex, yet is met with phrases like "All you ever think about is sex" or "Quit looking at me like a piece of meat."

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What is it that makes us so afraid of being alone? Does the idea of sitting alone in a room with no distractions terrify you?

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Loneliness #495

Wed, 25 Nov 2020 12:04:13 +0000

Dr J.W. Freiberg, "Terry", joins me to discuss the epidemic of loneliness. It is a far too common issue and has negative results on our health and life.

Learn more about Terry at his site http://thelonelinessbooks.com/

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Terry and I continue our conversation about loneliness - in particular the seasons of loneliness that we all will face.

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Don’t Be Ilcliterate #494

Wed, 18 Nov 2020 12:04:02 +0000

Dr Laurie Mintz joins me again to discuss the route to female orgasms as well as their importance.

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The Dad Edge #493

Wed, 11 Nov 2020 12:04:10 +0000

Larry Hagner from Dad Edge Podcast joins me to discuss to role and importance men play in fatherhood, marriage and the world.

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On the Xtended version ...

Pam gives me her take on Larry and I's conversation about men.

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When Was The Last Time… #492

Wed, 04 Nov 2020 12:04:40 +0000

We go through a marriage quiz to see how well we are handling the romantic side of our marriage.

An email from a wife who is growing in self-confidence, yet it's really disrupting her husband and their marriage.

On the Xtended version ...

There are 7 losing strategies we often use when we don't get our way. How many of these do you use?

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I Only Orgasm In My Sleep #491

Wed, 28 Oct 2020 11:04:08 +0000

Do you spend money like a Millennial?

An email from a wife who experiences orgasms only in her sleep, and is also married to a narcissist.

On the Xtended version ...

More questions to ask yourself when you are attempting to address the problems in life, not just alleviate the pain.

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Filming Sex #490

Wed, 21 Oct 2020 11:04:47 +0000

An email from a listener asking for our thoughts on if it's okay for her and her husband to film one of their sexual encounters.

An email from a husband wanting to know how to find the middle ground between he and his wife's desire levels.

A wife wants to know how to find sex positive friends.

On the Xtended version ...

What's the difference between seeking help and resources to alleviate the pain in life vs addressing the problems in life?

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Intimacy With Ease #489

Wed, 14 Oct 2020 11:04:06 +0000

On the Regular version of today's show ...

Jessa Zimmerman joins me today to let the SMRNation know about our free webinar - How To Help Your Partner Want More Sex WITHOUT Feeling Pressure or Obligation - on Tuesday, October 20, 2020 at 7 PM Central Time. Register for free by clicking here.

Jessa also sticks around to answer some questions from the Nation.

On the Xtended version (which is available to all today) ...

Pam and I talk about the impact Dr David Schnarch has had our our marriage and my profession.

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Mental Illness and Marriage #488

Wed, 07 Oct 2020 11:04:21 +0000

A conversation with Erin Ramachandran, who along with her husband have founded Mental Health Strong. A resource aimed to help married couples when one spouse suffers from a mental illness.

Hear her story and what they've created to help lots of other marriages alongside their own.

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Erin and I continue the conversation about what are some practical steps couples who face mental illnesses can take, alone and together.

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Are We All Liars? #487

Wed, 30 Sep 2020 11:04:58 +0000

A husband who has struggled with his weight all his life emails to tell us about how his wife has told him she is not attracted to him physically and he's afraid his marriage may wind up sexless.

A wife emails her surprise to hear how often other married couples have sex because in her marriage it only happens a handful of times per year.

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Why do we lie? Are we all liars? And how do you address the lies your spouse may tell or have told throughout your marriage?

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Indecisiveness #486

Wed, 23 Sep 2020 11:04:56 +0000

A caller asking how she can help her husband's performance anxiety issue.

An email from a husband asking about the difference between telling your spouse vs asking.

A wife is wondering if her perspective as the higher desire is wrong.

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Indecisiveness in life and sex. Many people face it - how do you confront it better?

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Discernment Counseling #485

Wed, 16 Sep 2020 11:04:03 +0000

Dr Marni Feuerman joins me as we discuss the times when couples may need discernment counseling. What is it and how does it work?

Learn more about Dr Marni at her site https://thetalkingsolution.com/

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Dr Marni and I continue the conversation by talking about the things we see in couples seeking our help that will get in the way of successful therapy.

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I Still Feel Guilt and Shame #484

Wed, 09 Sep 2020 11:04:58 +0000

An email from a listener concerned about some of the guests we have on our show and the fact that their values may go against the values of SMR.

A follow up on the topic of swallowing with an email from a listener who wants us to explore another aspect of oral sex.

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Let's face it, it's hard to escape the world of guilt and shame when it comes to sex. Today we talk about how to address it in your life and marriage.

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Sexual Dysfunction #483

Wed, 02 Sep 2020 11:04:15 +0000

Dr Amy Killen joins me to discuss several of the myths that people face when it comes to aging and sex and sexual dysfunctions.

Learn more about Dr Amy on her site - https://dramykillen.com/

On the Xtended version ...

Dr Amy and I continue the conversation and move into the solutions that many people may not know about when it comes to addressing their sexual function.

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Swallowing #482

Wed, 26 Aug 2020 11:04:11 +0000

A voicemail from a wife who doesn't want to swallow, even when her husband is using the line "If you love me you'd be willing to do this."

An email from a husband who found our new App Intimately Us (https://intimately.us) and his wife refuses to engage with the App along with him.

On the Xtended version ...

Negotiating sex in marriage - choreplay vs foreplay - and who are we at our core? We go deep this time in the XTD content.

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The Change Triangle #481

Wed, 19 Aug 2020 11:04:21 +0000

Today Hilary Jacobs Hendel joins me to talk about her book It's Not Always Depression, and the Change Triangle.

You can learn more about Hilary on her site https://www.hilaryjacobshendel.com/

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We continue the conversation with Hilary Jacobs Hendel and move into how the Change Triangle plays out in sex.

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Intimately Us #480

Wed, 12 Aug 2020 11:04:04 +0000

We are excited to announce a brand new resource aimed to help make your marriage fun and sexy ... Intimately Us

You can find the App in the App Stores for both Apple and Android, or read more about it here https://intimately.us/

Today we talk with the man who helped us create this app, Dan Purcell. Learn more about Dan at https://getyourmarriageon.com/

On the Xtended version ...

Pam and I have a conversation about the importance of novelty in marriage - and some ways you can add novelty that you may not think about.

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Everything Isn’t Terrible #479

Wed, 05 Aug 2020 11:04:36 +0000

Dr Kathleen Smith and I discuss her book, Everything Isn't Terrible, and how appropriate it is for our lives here in 2020.

Learn more about Kathleen on her site https://kathleensmith.net/

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Kathleen and I dive into the world of Bowen Systems Theory. Yes we geek out a little but it's a great way to understand what's going on in families.

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Power Plays #478

Wed, 29 Jul 2020 11:04:41 +0000

A voicemail from a wife looking to keep the connection and intimacy with her husband, who had a stroke 17 years ago.

A follow up email from a listener struggling with power plays around his sexuality and sex life with his wife.

On the Xtended version ...

A clarification from last week's XTD content. And a conversation about the main concepts taught by Schnarch and our understanding of them.

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Sex Is Only On My Spouse’s Terms #477

Wed, 22 Jul 2020 11:04:06 +0000

An email from a wife whose husband regularly views porn and when confronted replies with "I have needs."

A husband emails in asking our thoughts about how if his sexual desire has waned over the past couple years is it because he's stopped viewing porn over that timeframe or is it because sex is only on his wife's terms.

On the Xtended version ...

We share a blog post from an author where he gives 8 steps to confront your wife's sexual refusal - and our reaction.

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31 Days To Great Sex #476

Wed, 15 Jul 2020 11:04:17 +0000

Sheila Wray Gregoire joins me to discuss her new book 31 Ways To Great Sex, available now.
Check out more of Sheila's work here - https://tolovehonorandvacuum.com/

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Sheila and I continue a conversation about how Christianity and the church have addressed sex - especially the message towards women.

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Intention or Action #475

Wed, 08 Jul 2020 11:04:10 +0000

A conversation based on two emails from listeners who are each struggling to understand and navigate a big gap in desire between themselves and their spouse.

On the Xtended version ...

What is the difference between intention vs. action?

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Fantasies, Tell Me What You Want #474

Wed, 01 Jul 2020 11:04:23 +0000

Dr Justin Lehmiller joins me to talk about his research surround fantasies and sex.

On the Xtended version ...

Justin and I continue the conversation about fantasies and discuss more about where they come from and what to do with them.

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Mutual Masturbation #473

Wed, 24 Jun 2020 11:04:20 +0000

On the Regular version of today's show ...
An email from a wife who has discovered the eroticism and freedom that can happen when masturbating together with her husband.

What's the difference between sexual thoughts and lust?

A husband wanting to know what to do when he's tried to live in a way that ignites his wife's passion (according to an old post I wrote - https://smrnation.com/heads-up-husbands-5-ways-to-ignite-your-wifes-passions/) and yet his wife had an affair.

On the Xtended version ...
How do you confront gridlock in your marriage and what are the forced choice dilemmas that come along with them?

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Your Marriage Story #472

Wed, 17 Jun 2020 11:04:15 +0000

An email from a husband who loses his erection when the direct stimulation stops.

A wife wanting to know if there are dangers to porn use in their marriage.

On the Xtended version ...

What's your marriage story? It's important to be living something larger than yourself and your marriage if you want to live fully alive.

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Simultaneous Orgasms #471

Wed, 10 Jun 2020 11:04:46 +0000

On the regular version ... An email from a husband whose wife believes if they can't orgasm together at the same time then there must be something wrong.

A husband seeks our thoughts on how he can reestablish connection with his wife sexually and emotionally when she doesn't really like him currently.

On the Xtended version ...

Pam and I talk through the concepts of desire and how it's part of our process of growth in life and marriage.

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Securely Attach Your Genitals #470

Wed, 03 Jun 2020 11:04:06 +0000

A voicemail from a wife wanting to increase the erogenous zones on her body.

An email from a wife whose husband only touches her when he wants sex, usually in the middle of the night, leaving her wide awake after.

On the Xtended version ...

A deeper conversation about how living more from your core and as designed increases passion, energy and eroticism.

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Stress Proof Your Brain #469

Wed, 27 May 2020 11:04:04 +0000

Dr Melanie Greenberg joins me to talk about her research surround the brain and stress.

Read more from Melanie on her site - https://drmelaniegreenberg.com/

On the Xtended version ...

Melanie and I continue the conversation about how stress impacts married life.

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Wife Is Not Sexually Attracted To Me #468

Wed, 20 May 2020 11:04:04 +0000

An email from a husband asking for ideas on how he show more appreciation to his wife for her supporting him in some stressful times.

A wife wants to know if there are different ways to change the way she tastes since her husband doesn't like the taste when he goes down on her.

A voicemail from a woman who has experienced vaginismus and wants to tell her story about her experiences. The resource we mention on the show is here - https://www.womentc.com/

On the Xtended version ...

A husband in the Academy shared that his wife has come to the belief that she has not been sexually attracted to him and can't see that she will be in the future. We go deeper into what he can possibly do in this dilemma.

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Girls and Boys and Sex #467

Wed, 13 May 2020 11:04:14 +0000

Peggy Orenstein joins me to talk about her research surround the messages girls and boys are experiencing and have experienced with the subject of sex.

Read more from Peggy on her site - https://www.peggyorenstein.com/

On the Xtended version ...

Peggy and I continue the conversation about how the messages regarding sex and sexuality differ between parts of the world and the States.

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Perfectionism #466

Wed, 06 May 2020 11:04:08 +0000

Dr Margaret Rutherford joins me to tackle perfectionism and how it can actually be something that is covering up depression.

Learn more from Dr Rutherford on her site - https://drmargaretrutherford.com/

On the Xtended version ...

Dr Rutherford and I continue the conversation about how perfectionism impacts our sex life and marriage.

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Simple But Difficult #465

Wed, 29 Apr 2020 11:04:34 +0000

An email from a husband asking about sex during pregnancy and how they can stay connected and intimate.

A husband is wondering how he can handle rejections so his wife doesn't feel guilty.

On the Xtended version ...

Much of what we face in married life is quite simple, if we look at it correctly. But after our view is simplified, the difficult comes into play.

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Cherish #464

Wed, 22 Apr 2020 11:04:13 +0000

Gary Thomas joins me again to discuss the idea of cherishing your spouse. Listen to hear how this idea transformed his marriage and sex life.

You can learn more about Gary and his books here - http://www.garythomas.com/

On the Xtended version ...

Gary and I have a conversation about the church's history handling the topics of marriage and sex.

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Sex For Emotional Attachment #463

Wed, 15 Apr 2020 11:04:29 +0000

Dr Jennifer Finlayson-Fife joins me to answer an email from a wife who thinks she may be using sex as a form of emotional attachment and it possibly isn't helpful for her, or her husband.

You can find more about Dr. Jennifer on her site http://www.finlayson-fife.com/

On the Xtended version ...

Dr Jennifer and I talk about the factors that can come up when the husband is the lower desire spouse.

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Healthy Hedonism #462

Wed, 08 Apr 2020 11:04:21 +0000

A conversation with Dr Nan Wise about her work in the field of sex and sexuality - specifically about the importance of pleasure in life.

You can find more about Dr. Nan on her site http://askdoctornan.com/

On the Xtended version ...

Dr Nan and I talk about her research and the science of orgasms.

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Quarantine Sex #461

Wed, 01 Apr 2020 11:04:28 +0000

A conversation with Vanessa Marin, a fellow sex therapist, about the stress and issues couples will face in their sex lives during times of quarantine and uncertainty.

You can find more about Vanessa on her site https://vmtherapy.com/

Pick up her checkin for free here https://vmtherapy.com/checkin

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Marriage in the Time of Quarantine #460

Wed, 25 Mar 2020 11:04:49 +0000

With almost a fifth of the world's population in quarantine or distancing for the next couple of weeks, how do you navigate married life better?

On the Xtended version ...

An email from a husband who's frustrated with our response to another husband about his sex life and desire for more novelty and eroticism.

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Stress and Sexual Desire #459

Wed, 18 Mar 2020 11:04:38 +0000

Dr Lori Brotto joins me to discuss how stress impacts life and sex. Specifically sexual desire.

Learn more about Dr Brotto on her website - www.debunkingdesire.com also find her on social media using this #debunkingdesire

On the Xtended version ...

Dr Brotto and I talk more in depth about the myths surrounding sexual desire and her research on the subject.

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Spouse Won’t Try Anything New #458

Wed, 11 Mar 2020 11:04:44 +0000

Dr Laura Dabney joins me to answer a couple of questions from the SMR Nation.

A husband asks for help in getting his wife to be willing to try new things in sex.

And a wife emails wanting to know how to get her husband to seek help with his ED issues.

Learn more about Dr Dabney on her website - https://www.drldabney.com/ or call her at 757-695-3925

On the Xtended version ...

Dr Dabney and I discuss the trend of our field and society seeking to medicate problems rather than address them head on.

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Too Easy For Your Spouse? #457

Wed, 04 Mar 2020 12:04:05 +0000

A conversation about slowing down in life and marriage.

A question from a husband asking for help with a position they both enjoy but want it to last longer for him/or quicker for her.

A caller speaking up about pain in sex for women.

On the Xtended version ...

Is it possible that you can make things too easy for your spouse? Yes!

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Responsive Desire #456

Wed, 26 Feb 2020 12:04:51 +0000

A conversation with Dr Emily Nagoski, author of Come As You Are, about all things sex. What's normal? What about responsive desire? Context is king?

Check out Emily's work on her site http://www.emilynagoski.com/

On the Xtended version ...

Dr Emily and I continue a conversation exploring the world of sexual non-concordance.

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Question Potpourri #455

Wed, 19 Feb 2020 12:04:02 +0000

A question from a wife about a condition her husband has called phimosis and how this impacts their sex life.

Another wife wants to know how to get her husband to be more romantic.

A wife calls wanting to know how to be more free and let go in her sex life.

On the Xtended version ...

A caller asks us three questions - female-led relationships - pleasure derived from pain during sex - and vibrators.

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The Female Orgasm #454

Wed, 12 Feb 2020 12:04:45 +0000

A conversation with Vanessa Marin, a fellow sex therapist, about the most common issues couples face in their sex lives today. You can find more about Vanessa on her site https://vmtherapy.com/

On the Xtended version ...

Vanessa and I continue the conversation about sex, only this time we're focusing solely on the female orgasm.

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Daily Self Touching #453

Wed, 05 Feb 2020 12:04:31 +0000

A husband calls in asking for our thoughts about his wife's habit of touching herself most every morning and night.

A newly-wed wife calls wanting help with her infrequent sex life and struggling attraction for her husband.

On the Xtended version ...

How do you confront change with your spouse? Where you want more for them and they don't want it for themselves?

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Labels, Disabilities and Meanings #452

Wed, 29 Jan 2020 12:04:56 +0000

A husband asks for our thought regarding a better term to use when referring to a specific part of his wife's body.

An email from a spouse asking for help in approaching their sex life when one of them is disabled.

On the Xtended version ...

Love and Respect, is one more important than the other in marriage? What role and meaning do each of these play?

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Fantasies, Threesomes and Anxiety #451

Wed, 22 Jan 2020 12:04:08 +0000

A couple of emails about fantasies ... from threesomes to aggressive sex almost like rape. Are these common? What do they mean?

On the Xtended version ...

An email from a wife whose husband has performance anxiety during sex, making it quite difficult to connect and enjoy their sexual encounters.

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Anal Sex #450

Wed, 15 Jan 2020 12:04:50 +0000

A couple of emails on the topic of Anal Sex. What do you do when one spouse is unwilling to try it? And what are some tips for those who are willing to try it?

Plus an email from a wife whose husband is turned off by sex during pregnancy - and after it.

On the Xtended version ...

We unpack an email from a wife who found out her husband masturbates regularly to porn because she set up a hidden camera in their bedroom.

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ADHD and Marriage #449

Wed, 08 Jan 2020 12:04:16 +0000

I'm joined by Melissa Orlov, of ADHD Marriage and we discuss how ADHD impacts life and relationships. Read more from Melissa on her site here - https://www.adhdmarriage.com/

On the Xtended version ...

Melissa Orlov and I continue the conversation about ADHD and marriage but venture into how it impacts sex.

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Role Playing #448

Wed, 01 Jan 2020 12:04:39 +0000

Welcome to 2020. Join us as we go through our 3 words for the year. What are yours?

An email from a listener wondering how to get his wife more comfortable with lingerie and role playing.

On the Xtended version ...
A voicemail about how gender roles and egalitarian roles impact married life and sex.

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Best Of SMR: Three Kinds of Sex #447

Wed, 25 Dec 2019 12:04:19 +0000

A look back in the SMR archives at one of the most popular shows to date. Birthday sex, shower sex, oral sex.

On the Xtended version ...

The importance of boundaries in life and marriage.

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Foreplay For Foreplay #446

Wed, 18 Dec 2019 12:04:50 +0000

Jessa Zimmerman joins me to answer an email from listeners who say they have a great marriage but real struggle in their sex life.

A conversation about the idea of foreplay for foreplay.

On the XTD content.

What books I've read this year and their impact on my life and marriage.

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When To Walk Away #445

Wed, 11 Dec 2019 06:04:13 +0000

As a gift from us to you this Holiday Season both versions of today's episode are free.

Today we are joined by author Gary Thomas as he discusses his new book, When To Walk Away: Finding Freedom From Toxic People.

You can learn more about Gary and his books here - http://www.garythomas.com/

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Holiday Movies and Vaginas #444

Wed, 04 Dec 2019 06:04:51 +0000

An email from a husband concerned about how the Holiday Hallmark movies impact his wife and their marriage.

Plus a husband seeks our help in understanding how to play with his wife’s vagina.

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Reading List #443

Wed, 27 Nov 2019 12:04:00 +0000

A sex ed quiz for my wife and co-host, Pam.

An email from a listener asking for a reading list to help him not only in the counseling world but also in marriage.

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Not Always In The Mood #442

Wed, 20 Nov 2019 12:04:28 +0000

A conversation with Dr Sarah Hunter Murray, a therapist who has a new book exploring the science of men, sex and relationships.

Check out her work and pick up her book here https://sarahhuntermurray.com/

On the Xtended version ...

Dr Sarah joins me to answer a question from a husband whose wife initiated sex and then informed him she did so only because she knows he needs it.

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Help My Parents and Confronting Desire Differences #441

Wed, 13 Nov 2019 12:04:44 +0000

An email from a listener about how to bring up the idea that his parents need counseling.

Plus a 2 part email from a higher desire wife who wants help addressing the desire difference and oral sex.

On the Xtended version ...

A discussion about how to recover from fights in married life.

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Selfish and Needy #440

Wed, 06 Nov 2019 12:04:08 +0000

A conversation with Dr Laura Dabney, a Psychiatrist who works with clients by helping the deal with emotions better - especially the emotions we've often deemed as bad.

Check out her work here https://www.lauradabney.com/

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We’ve Had This Fight Before #439

Wed, 30 Oct 2019 11:04:26 +0000

On the Regular version of today’s show … A conversation with Dr Claudia Grauf-Grounds about her research and work around the subject of conflict and fighting in married life. Check out her work here https://drclaudiagg.com/ On the Xtended version … We continue the conversation with Dr Claudia about her thought about the Marriage and Family […]

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Sensate Focus #438

Wed, 23 Oct 2019 11:04:55 +0000

On the Regular version of today’s show … An email from a listener who wishes we would have addressed the “you complete me” line differently in episode #431. A caller wanting information about Sensate Focus exercises for their sex life. And an email from a wife whose husband found a vibrator she bought and completely […]

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The Lower Desire Wife #437

Wed, 16 Oct 2019 11:04:49 +0000

On the Regular version of today’s show … I’m joined by Dr Jennifer Findlayson-Fife, a fellow therapist and we discuss the dynamic of desire differences and the lower desire wife. Learn more about Dr Jennifer at http://www.finlayson-fife.com On the Xtended version … Dr Jennifer and I discuss her research with LDS Women and sexuality and […]

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Metaphors and Sex Therapy #436

Wed, 09 Oct 2019 11:04:52 +0000

On the Regular version of today’s show … I’m joined by Deb Thomas, a fellow LMFT and Sex Therapist and we discuss how metaphors can be helpful when it comes to addressing your sex life. Learn more about Deb at https://nwioi.com/ On the Xtended version … Deb Thomas and I continue our conversation although for […]

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Abuse In Marriage #435

Wed, 02 Oct 2019 11:04:53 +0000

On the Regular version of today’s show … I’m joined by Dr Steven Stosny as we discuss how abuse happens in marriage and relationships – and how compassion is the key to breaking the patterns. Learn more about Dr Stosny at his site https://www.compassionpower.com/ On the Xtended version … Pam and I have a conversation […]

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Trust and Hurt #434

Wed, 25 Sep 2019 11:04:10 +0000

On today’s show … We’ve combined the Regular and the XTD versions into one show – this week only. The whole show we are talking about trust and hurt … and how there is a tremendous difference in handling these two aspects of betrayal, lies, and broken promises. Enjoy the show! __________ Got a question? […]

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Arousal and Desire #433

Wed, 18 Sep 2019 11:04:04 +0000

On today’s regular version of the show … My wife Pam is tested on her knowledge with a 10 Question Sex Quiz And an email from a husband looking for our thoughts about helping his marriage and their struggles with weight, desire, infertility and adoption. On the Xtended version … What’s the difference between arousal […]

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Sex and the Enneagram #432

Wed, 11 Sep 2019 11:04:34 +0000

On today’s regular version of the show … A conversation with Ann Gadd, author of Sex and the Enneagram. You can learn more about Ann by visiting her website. You can also email her at ann@anngadd.co.za On the Xtended version … The continued conversation with Ann Gadd. Enjoy the show! __________ Got a question? CALL […]

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The Challenges of Intimacy #431

Wed, 04 Sep 2019 11:04:24 +0000

On today’s regular version of the show … A conversation with Jeff Abraham, the CEO of Promescent, and how to create intimacy in marriage by being willing to address the struggles many men and women face when it comes to sex and life together. On the Xtended version … How do you adjust better with […]

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The F Word #430

Wed, 28 Aug 2019 11:04:39 +0000

On today’s regular version of the show … An email from listeners asking for our take on the use of the “f” word in married life and sex. A voicemail from a higher desire husband who takes too much of his cue from his lower desire wife when it comes to their sex life. A […]

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Darker Fantasies #429

Wed, 21 Aug 2019 11:04:33 +0000

On today’s regular version of the show … A husband emails looking for help for he and his wife regarding the fantasies she often turns to for sexual arousal. A caller asking for followup on one of Dr Glover’s ideas about the differences between men and women. On the Xtended version … An in-depth conversation […]

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Spilled Milk and Differences #428

Wed, 14 Aug 2019 11:04:00 +0000

On today’s regular version of the show … A husband emails to share his journey to getting his wife on board to talking more about sex and wonders why he’s not at the same level of desire as before due to the work it took to reach their current level. And Jessa Zimmerman joins me […]

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Being There For You #427

Wed, 07 Aug 2019 11:04:23 +0000

On today’s regular version of the show … An email from a wife who has repeated attempted to educate her husband about how she wants sex to unfold, yet is still getting little to no foreplay and routine, unfulfilling sex most of the time. On the Xtended version … Should you expect your spouse to […]

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Reframing and the Orgasm Gap #426

Wed, 31 Jul 2019 11:04:24 +0000

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Testing Solidness #425

Wed, 24 Jul 2019 11:04:06 +0000

On today’s regular version of the show … How well do you do at showing the people that matter in your life that they matter? I’m joined by Dr. Robert Glover again as we discuss tests that happen in marriage between men and women. Learn more about Dr Glover here. On the Xtended version … […]

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Trusting After Porn #424

Wed, 17 Jul 2019 11:04:38 +0000

The following episode was recorded live while at the 2019 Sexy Marriage Radio Getaway! On today’s regular version of the show … A wife calls in wanting to know how to trust again after her husband disclosed his porn usage for over 12 years of their marriage. Another wife emails wanting to know how to […]

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Wife Wants Variety #423

Wed, 10 Jul 2019 11:04:43 +0000

The following episode was recorded live while at the 2019 Sexy Marriage Radio Getaway! On today’s regular version of the show … A wife calls in wanting more variety in her sex life – yet every time she brings it up with her husband he reverts back to what they’ve always done. And an email […]

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One Sided Sex In Marriage #422

Wed, 03 Jul 2019 11:04:17 +0000

The following episode was recorded live while at the 2019 Sexy Marriage Radio Getaway! On today’s regular version of the show … An email from a listener asking for our thoughts regarding One Sided Sex in marriage. Taken from an article found on Psychology Today. On the Xtended version … Part two of the SMR […]

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Lasting Longer and Squirting #421

Wed, 26 Jun 2019 11:04:10 +0000

The following episode was recorded live while at the 2019 Sexy Marriage Radio Getaway! On today’s regular version of the show … A husband calls in with 2 questions, how can he last longer during sex and would we talk about squirting and how to explore it or if you should. On the Xtended version […]

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Something Worth Wanting #420

Wed, 19 Jun 2019 11:04:07 +0000

On today’s regular version of the show … A husband looking for more information on how to present something worth wanting. A wife wanting to know how to keep triggers from happening in the bedroom. On the Xtended version … A little more on the idea of the thinking brain and the feeling brain, particularly […]

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Boundaries #419

Wed, 12 Jun 2019 11:04:20 +0000

On today’s regular version of the show … A husband is looking for how to add more variety to his sex life when his wife has fear of pain during sex. A wife describes a gridlock with her husband surrounding his higher interest in sex than hers. Can your spouse be an accountability partner in […]

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Masturbation and Massage #418

Wed, 05 Jun 2019 11:04:55 +0000

On today’s regular version of the show … Two different questions about masturbation. What if it could be reframed as a path forward and what about the woman’s side of this act? Plus a conversation with Denis Merkas from MELT, Couples Massage Courses about how massage is such a good addition to any marriage. On […]

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Accelerators and Brakes #417

Wed, 29 May 2019 11:04:38 +0000

On today’s regular version of the show … We don’t french kiss anymore. How can I get it started again in my marriage? Plus we’re joined by Seth and Melanie Studley from the Anatomy Of Marriage for a conversation about the idea of your accelerators and brakes in your sex life. On the Xtended version […]

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Premature Ejaculation #416

Wed, 22 May 2019 11:04:49 +0000

On today’s regular version of the show … How do I help my spouse believe they are attractive when it’s not what they believe about themself? Plus I’m joined by Dr. Ian Kerner, the author of She Comes First, to answer a listener’s question about premature ejaculation. On the Xtended version … A deeper conversation […]

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Is Sex Addiction Real? #415

Wed, 15 May 2019 11:04:24 +0000

On today’s regular version of the show … Several voicemails about the pressures that are felt in married life. From changes to sex to foreplay. On the Xtended version … Sex addiction is a term used quite a lot in the media and our culture lately. But is it accurate, real, and even an addiction […]

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What Is Normal #414

Wed, 08 May 2019 11:04:40 +0000

On today’s regular version of the show … Several voicemails from the SMR Nation ranging from how does a wife better handle her husband’s struggle with looking at pornography to how do you address a spouse who’s upbringing around the subject of sex created a real discomfort even talking about the subject now. On the […]

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State of the Union #413

Wed, 01 May 2019 11:04:50 +0000

On today’s regular version of the show … What do you do when your husband goes straight for the genitalia in foreplay? A caller asking for more information about the State of the Union conversations you can have with your spouse. On the Xtended version … What if? Conflict and how this all creates a […]

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Masturbation and Expectations #412

Wed, 24 Apr 2019 11:04:51 +0000

On today’s regular version of the show … An email from a husband wanting more than just functional/duty sex with his wife. A caller wondering about more information about masturbation and is it a sin. On the Xtended version … Expectations. We all have them. Where do they come from and what do we do […]

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