You raised your hand for a stretch project, and — congratulations! — you’ve bagged the assignment. As an emerging leader, you were hoping to show your drive and ambition, but now that you have the opportunity, you’re terrified.
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Why You Should Take on More Stretch Assignments
Research shows the stakes are higher for marginalized communities, but the opportunity is usually worth it.
April 07, 2023
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Summary.
Stretch projects require skills or knowledge beyond your current level of development and are great opportunities to shine in a new arena. This is also why they can feel so scary, especially for workers at the intersections of race, class, gender, sexuality, or other dimensions of diversity. Research shows us that women, people of color, and members of the queer community are punished more heavily when they make mistakes. As a result, you may feel pressure to perform perfectly, and be less averse to taking on the risk of a stretch assignment. The good news is that handling this kind of unfamiliar work is a skill that you can learn and refine — and it’s a great way to advance your career. Here’s how to get started.
- Shift your negative self-talk. When you’re feeling overwhelmed by self-doubt, pause, and take some time to reflect. Write down all of the times that you tried something new and figured it out. This will give your mind the “evidence” it needs to prove that you’re capable of taking on challenges.
- Get clarity. At the very start of your project, seek to gain clarity around your manager’s expectations, important deadlines, specific goals you need to hit within those time frames, and any important stakeholders you need to keep in the loop along the way.
- Do a listening tour. Schedule meetings with each of the key stakeholders your manager named. When reaching out, explain the project you’re leading and what information you want to learn from them. Use your meeting to do three things: communicate transparently that you are not an expert in the area yet, show sincerity that you are interested in learning more about it, and give the people who are experts a chance to showcase what they know.
- Trust your gut. Don’t let your fear of failing overcome your intuition. Write down all of the times you had a hunch to do something, but against your better judgment, you didn’t do it. In the end, if you found yourself saying “I knew better,” that initial hunch was your intuition. Remember this feeling, and trust it the next time it comes around.