We've been conditioned to believe pleasure is something we earn after we've worked hard enough, taken care of everyone else, or finally found love.

But what if we've got it backwards?

In this episode, discover why pleasure isn't just about sex, why it's the foundation of authentic flirting and intimacy, and what becomes possible when you stop postponing your own enjoyment of life.

Plus, a sneak peek at Hot for the Holidays, my upcoming 12-day celebration of pleasure, sensuality, and self-love for singles and partnered people alike.

Registration opens November 14. Stay tuned.

      

Susan H. Hines is an author, speaker, storyteller, and founder of TJP Publications LLC. Through her writing, she explores self-discovery, personal growth, relationships, and the courage to reinvent oneself.

Her latest book, CRAZY Won't Leave Me Alone: Dating, Doubt, and Discovering the Woman I Was Meant to Be, is the first installment in the CRAZY trilogy.

The book introduces the CRAZY Method, a five-step framework:

• C — Challenge the narrative
• R — Reclaim your power
• A — Accept yourself
• Z — Zero in on what brings you joy
• Y — You choose what's next

The CRAZY Method Workbook is scheduled for release November 17, 2026, followed by the CRAZY Journal in December. Susan is also the creator of the Buckley children's book series.

Upcoming Book Signing & Celebration

Sunday, November 8, 2026 | 2:00–4:00 PM

The Gallery at Hood Street, McDonough, Georgia

Join Susan for an intimate author conversation, audience Q&A, book signing, photographs, and light refreshments.

Tickets are available through Eventbrite. The Celebration Experience ticket includes a signed paperback copy of CRAZY Won't Leave Me Alone.

Connect with Susan

Website: https://susanhhines.com

Instagram & Facebook: @susanhhines

Book: CRAZY Won't Leave Me Alone: Dating, Doubt, and Discovering the Woman I Was Meant to Be

      

Agency is inner capacity #5 in our mini-series on the skills and capacities for lasting love. It's about taking love into your own hands—not by forcing, chasing, or controlling, but by choosing, initiating, and creating from a place of pleasure and sovereignty.

In this episode, discover how to move beyond waiting to be chosen, why taking action actually builds your capacity for love, and how to become an active co-creator of the relationships you desire.

We also bring together all three relational skills and five inner capacities to close out this series.

Love is an art. Relationship is a skill. And you are an artist who can bring love to life and co-create with your beloved.

      

Openness is inner capacity #4 in our mini-series on the skills and capacities for lasting love. And it's about more than vulnerability. It's about allowing another person to touch your inner world, influence you, and help you grow.

In this episode, I share personal stories from my first marriage and my now marriage with Jason, along with a client's journey into deeper intimacy. You'll discover the difference between healthy boundaries and emotional fortresses, and how to let love transform you without losing yourself.

You can be sovereign and permeable. You can belong to yourself and belong with another person.

      

Emotional Range is inner capacity #3 in our mini-series on the skills and capacities for lasting love. It's about expanding your ability to experience the full spectrum of emotions, from grief and anger to pleasure, desire, joy, and ecstasy.

In this episode, we explore why healthy love can feel so vulnerable, how we unconsciously limit the goodness we allow ourselves to experience, and a simple practice to expand your emotional range.

The goal isn't intensity or drama. It's the capacity to feel more fully alive—and more deeply loved.

      

Regulation is inner capacity #2 in our mini-series on the skills and capacities for lasting love. And it isn't about being calm. It's about being able to feel without losing yourself.

In this episode, discover how to work with your fight, flight, freeze, and fawn responses rather than overriding them, and move from old protective patterns into conscious choice.

I'll share personal stories, practical embodiment exercises, and a simple framework for communicating your feelings and needs without abandoning yourself or blaming someone else.

You don't have to fix everything when you're triggered. You can return to yourself first.

      

When a man canceled our first date because he was sick, I felt so rejected that I sent a rude text—and sabotaged a beautiful connection.

In this episode, discover the difference between intellectual insight and embodied awareness, and how noticing your body's sensations, emotions, and stories can help you interrupt old patterns before they take over.

Plus, a personal story about how sharing my vulnerability on a date with my now-husband actually brought us closer.

Sometimes the first sign that you're changing isn't that you feel better. It's that you're willing to feel uncomfortable without abandoning yourself.

      

You know your attachment style. You've done the therapy. You understand your patterns. So why is it still so hard to change them?

Discover the 5 inner capacities [Awareness, Regulation, Range, Openness, and Agency] that help you move from intellectual insight to embodied change.

Plus, the story of a client who went from people-pleasing, unavailable partners, and lingering heartbreak to dating someone extraordinary.

Knowing what to do in love is one thing. Becoming capable of doing it when your heart is on the line is another.

Which capacity do you most want to strengthen? Email me at violet@violetlange.com and tell me!

      

Love is one of the most powerful creative acts we experience. And like any art, it requires practice, courage, and skill.

Discover how Authentic Flirting, Loving Boundaries, and Conflict to Connection work together to create chemistry, deepen intimacy, and build a relationship where you can be fully yourself AND deeply connected to someone else.

Because the love you want isn't just about who you meet. It's about what you can create together.

      

In this episode, I'm joined by trauma-informed somatic marriage coach Becky Aste, who shares how she went from separation and the brink of divorce to a marriage with more trust, intimacy, and authenticity than ever before.

We explore why talking, analyzing, and trying to fix your partner aren't always enough—and how healing your nervous system can transform your relationships from the inside out.

Whether you're dating, married, or wondering if your relationship can be saved, this conversation is a powerful reminder that true intimacy isn't about avoiding conflict: it's about being authentic, even when things get messy.

Connect with Becky:

• Instagram: @becky_aste
• Podcast: Your Breakthrough Blueprint
• Email: beckyaste@idobreakthrough.com

      

How can you love someone so much and still struggle to find your way back?

Discover five hidden blocks to repairing after conflict—from fear of being hurt again and needing to be right to shame, pride, and simply not knowing how.

Because the cost of conflict isn't just the fight. It's all the connection you lose afterward.

      

Discover how misunderstandings, difficult conversations, and even the conflicts within yourself can become opportunities for deeper intimacy.

Plus, the story of a client whose willingness to be vulnerable—and her date's willingness to hold his boundaries—helped turn an awkward moment into a marriage that's lasted since 2019.

You don't need a relationship without rupture. You need a relationship where repair is possible.

      

Why does asking for what you want or sharing what doesn't feel good, feel like risking the entire relationship?

Discover five hidden blocks to loving boundaries—from fear of abandonment and conflict to people-pleasing and believing love requires self-sacrifice.

When you hide your needs, you never discover what kind of love someone is actually capable of offering you.

💗 Divine Union Delivered: Meet your soulmate and create lasting love without abandoning yourself. Enrollment closes October 23rd.

      

They create attraction, teach someone how to love you, and make room for respect, intimacy, and commitment.

But if you're constantly merging, making yourself endlessly available, or accepting crumbs because you're afraid to lose someone, you may be sacrificing the very connection you want.

Discover why loving boundaries invite people closer—and how to honor yourself without closing your heart.

💗 Divine Union Delivered: Learn the skills to meet your soulmate and create lasting love. Enrollment closes October 23

🏹 Free Cosmic Matchmaking 1:1: Get personalized insight into what's keeping you stuck in love. Complimentary through October 22 (regularly $350)

      

How lonely is it to want someone to find you while making yourself invisible?

Discover five hidden blocks to authentic flirting—from sexual shame and fear of rejection to people-pleasing, performing, and losing touch with pleasure.

And the painful cost of opportunities for love you may already have missed.

💗 Divine Union Delivered: Learn the skills to meet your soulmate and create lasting love. Enrollment closes October 23

🏹 Free Cosmic Matchmaking 1:1: Get personalized insight into what's keeping you stuck in love. Complimentary through October 22 (regularly $350)

      

Discover how flirting with yourself, nature, and others can awaken your playfulness, creativity, pleasure, and magnetism. Plus, the story of a client who went from feeling invisible to radiating confidence, attracting dates, and even releasing her own song.

💗 Divine Union Delivered: Meet your soulmate and create lasting love & soul-shaking intimacy. Enrollment closes October 22.

✨ Trust, Truth & Triggers: Join my interactive workshop October 20 to build deeper trust without abandoning your truth.

      

Three different problems. Three different skills.

Discover how Authentic Flirting, Loving Boundaries, and Conflict to Connection can transform your love life: from attracting someone extraordinary to building a relationship that lasts.

Plus, the story of a client who went from heartbreak, divorce, and self-abandonment to a happy marriage where she hasn't lost herself.

💗 Divine Union Delivered: Meet your soulmate and create lasting love & soul-shaking intimacy. Enrollment closes October 22.

✨ Trust, Truth & Triggers: Join my interactive workshop October 20 to build deeper trust without abandoning your truth.

      

You can understand your childhood wounds, recognize your attachment patterns, and still struggle to create lasting love.

In this episode, we explore how earned secure attachment develops through new relational experiences, vulnerability, community, boundaries, and rupture and repair...and why you don't have to heal your attachment patterns alone.

Divine Union Delivered: Meet your soulmate and create lasting love & soul-shaking intimacy.

FREE Cosmic Matchmaking Session 1:1 with Violet: Over 30 potent minutes, get personalized insight into your love life. Normally $350, complimentary through October 22.

Trust, Truth & Triggers: Join my October 20 workshop to navigate trust, triggers, and red flags in love.

      

In this episode, we explore how secure attachment develops in childhood, the five signs of secure relating, and how to build greater security in dating, partnership, and beyond. Plus how factors like gender, neurotype and culture affect our ability to securely attach to other, self, and even the Earth.

Divine Union Delivered: Meet your soulmate and create lasting love & soul-shaking intimacy.

FREE Cosmic Matchmaking Session 1:1 with Violet: Over 30 potent minutes, get personalized insight into your love life. Normally $350, complimentary through October 22.

Trust, Truth & Triggers: Join my October 20 workshop to navigate trust, triggers, and red flags in love.

      

Attachment styles can shift throughout a relationship, especially at major intimacy and commitment milestones. Here's how to recognize those cycles and build greater security.

Divine Union Delivered: Meet your soulmate and create lasting love & soul-shaking intimacy.

FREE Cosmic Matchmaking Session 1:1 with Violet: Over 30 potent minutes, get personalized insight into your love life. Normally $350, complimentary through October 22.

Trust, Truth & Triggers: Join my October 20 workshop to navigate trust, triggers, and red flags in love.

      

Let's explore why traditional attachment theory doesn't tell the whole story—and what you might uniquely need to feel loved.

💗 Divine Union Delivered: Meet your soulmate and create lasting love & soul-shaking intimacy.

🏹 FREE Cosmic Matchmaking Session: Get personalized insight into your love life. Normally $350, complimentary through October 22. [LINK]

✨ Trust, Truth & Triggers: Join my October 20 workshop to navigate trust, triggers, and red flags in love. [LINK]

      

Explore the six developmental phases of attachment, from birth to age six, and where unmet needs might still be influencing your love life. This is based on Gordon Neufeld's Six Sequential Phases of Attaching here.

Divine Union Delivered: Meet your soulmate and create lasting love & soul-shaking intimacy.

FREE Cosmic Matchmaking Session 1:1 with Violet: Over 30 potent minutes, get personalized insight into your love life. Normally $350, complimentary through October 22.

Trust, Truth & Triggers: Join my October 20 workshop to navigate trust, triggers, and red flags in love.

      

Here's my personal journey, including what actually helped me change.

Divine Union Delivered: Meet your soulmate and create lasting love & soul-shaking intimacy.

FREE Cosmic Matchmaking Session 1:1 with Violet: Over 30 potent minutes, get personalized insight into your love life. Normally $350, complimentary through October 22.

Trust, Truth & Triggers: Join my October 20 workshop to navigate trust, triggers, and red flags in love.

      

Let's explore common attachment-style pairings, anxious-avoidant dynamics, and how to shift your patterns of attraction.

💗 Divine Union Delivered: Meet your soulmate and create lasting love & soul-shaking intimacy.

🏹 FREE Cosmic Matchmaking Session 1:1 with Violet: Over 30 potent minutes, get personalized insight into your love life. Normally $350, complimentary through October 22.

✨ Trust, Truth & Triggers: Join my October 20 workshop to navigate trust, triggers, and red flags in love.

      

In this episode, we explore anxious-ambivalent attachment...including why reassurance can be so hard to receive, and what happens when your attention gets consumed by the other person.

✨ Trust, Truth & Triggers on Oct 20: Build trust, stay connected to your truth + work with your triggers for healthier love. $44.

🏹 Divine Union Delivered: Create more secure patterns in dating + relationship. Early Bird through Oct 13.

      

In this episode, we explore dismissive-avoidant attachment—and what might actually be happening when someone else's vulnerability starts to irritate you.

✨ Trust, Truth & Triggers — Oct 20: Build trust, stay connected to your truth + work with your triggers for healthier love. $44.

🏹 Divine Union Delivered: Create more secure patterns in dating + relationship. Early Bird through Oct 13.

      

Disorganized attachment can create a confusing push-pull: chasing someone when they pull away, losing interest when they come closer, or suddenly questioning a perfectly good connection once it starts becoming real.

In this episode, we explore where this pattern can come from—and the path toward staying connected to yourself AND another person at the same time.

✨ Trust, Truth & Triggers — Oct 20

Learn to distinguish a trigger from a genuine relational issue, stay in your truth, deepen trust, and build healthier repair + reciprocity. $44.

🏹 Divine Union Delivered

Build greater security in dating and relationship by working with your patterns, reactions, feelings + developmental wounds—so you can give and receive love differently.

Early Bird $2,222 through Oct 13

      

Rereading texts. Reaching out again. Future-pacing. Overgiving. Obsessing over whether they really like you—and slowly losing contact with yourself.

In this episode, we explore anxious attachment, why uncertainty can feel almost addictive, and how to come back to yourself without shutting down your desire for connection.

✨ Trust, Truth & Triggers — Oct 20

A 2-hour experiential workshop to uncover where your trust issues come from, build a foundation of truth, and work with your triggers for healthier repair, resonance + reciprocity. $44.

[WORKSHOP LINK]

🏹 Divine Union Delivered

Build greater security in how you date, love, give + receive—while working with the developmental wounds and patterns underneath it all.

Early Bird $2,222 through Oct 13

      

Sometimes it looks like being busy. Overworking. Love bombing or coming on strong. Saying the perfectly reasonable thing instead of what you actually feel.

Underneath it, there may be something much more tender: it doesn’t feel safe to be fully known.

In this episode, we explore what avoidance can actually look like...and how learning to feel, know and communicate what you want can create greater security and intimacy. 💗

✨ Trust, Truth & Triggers — Oct 20

Learn to stay connected to your truth, build trust, work with your triggers, and create more secure relationships. $44.

🏹 Divine Union Delivered

Inside DVUD, we’ll work with the developmental wounds and present-day patterns that shape how you give and receive love—so you can notice what’s happening inside you and show up differently in dating and relationship.

Early Bird $2,222 through Oct 13.

     

In this episode, I’m breaking down some of the biggest myths about attachment—and why you may show up secure in one relationship, anxious in another, and avoidant somewhere else.

Most importantly: you can earn greater security. 💗

✨ Trust, Truth & Triggers — Oct 20

Join me for this 2-hour workshop on building trust, working with triggers, staying connected to your truth, and showing up more securely in relationship. $44.



🏹 Divine Union Delivered

We work with your actual feelings, reactions, attachment patterns, and developmental wounds so you can give and receive love more securely—and create the relationship you actually want. Plus make dating more delicious, and easy, while bringing in your beloved.

Early Bird $2,222 through Oct 13.

     

But eventually…another human being has to enter the room. 😂

In this episode, I’m talking about why dating isn’t the final exam you take after you’ve finished healing. Dating is the lab. And sometimes, working on your spirituality can become a very sophisticated way of hiding from the vulnerability love actually requires.

💗 Divine Union Delivered is open. Early Bird pricing ends October 13th.

✨ For a limited time while enrollment is open, I’m also offering complimentary 30-minute Cosmic Matchmaking sessions, normally $350. I’ll put my eyes on your love life and give you my read on your blocks, opportunities, and aligned next steps.

Book your complimentary Cosmic Matchmaking session

Say "I Do" to Love in Divine Union Delivered

     

We’re trying to find someone we genuinely desire, who desires us, who shares our values, can build a life with us, and with whom we can create deep emotional intimacy and soul-shaking sex—without abandoning ourselves in the process.

And we’re trying to do it with dating apps, endless choices, disappearing cultural scripts, attachment patterns, and approximately 47 different kinds of flags to analyze. 😂 No wonder we’re in our heads.

In this episode, I explore why modern love asks so much of us, why you can’t think your way into Divine Union, and why finding lasting love requires your head, heart, and bod, plus the courage to actually participate in your love life vs scrolling on the couch calling it surrender.

💗 Divine Union Delivered is open. Early Bird pricing ends October 13th.

✨ For a limited time while enrollment is open, I’m also offering complimentary 30-minute Cosmic Matchmaking sessions, normally $350. I’ll put my eyes on your love life and give you my read on your blocks, opportunities, and aligned next steps for love.

Book your complimentary Cosmic Matchmaking session

Say "I Do" to Love with Divine Union Delivered

     

So why are you still single?

What if the answer isn’t that you need to start over?

What if you’ve already done 80% of the work—and you’re missing the specific pieces that would actually change your love life?

In this episode, I’m talking about why healing, dating strategy, embodiment + relational skills can sometimes stay siloed instead of becoming a new way of actually dating and relating.

And why I don’t want to prescribe another 100% of work when what you really need is a personalized map for the final 20%.

Because you may be much closer to love than you think. 💗

✨ Divine Union Delivered is open: [LINK]

My six-month experience helps you meet your soulmate + create lasting love and soul-shaking intimacy without abandoning yourself, going on a million dates, or lowering your standards.

Early Bird enrollment is $2,222 through October 13th, and when you join now, you’ll begin receiving bonus calls, support, curriculum and ceremonies in October before our six-month journey officially begins in January.

You don’t need to start over. You may just need the right map and guide.

     

Then they text when they say they will, tell you they like you, and consistently show up…and suddenly you’re wondering why they feel boring. 😂

Or you want to feel wildly desired—until someone looks at you with actual hunger and your whole body freezes.

Wanting love and having the capacity to receive it aren’t always the same thing.

In this episode, we’re talking about what happens when the love, attention, intimacy + commitment you’ve been asking for actually starts arriving—and how to tell the difference between healthy discernment and a nervous system saying, this is unfamiliar.

Plus, I’m sharing why embodiment is such an important part of my work and how I use the bespoke Bring in Beloved meditation to help my clients practice receiving the love they’re creating.

💗 Divine Union Delivered is open: https://violetlange.com/divineunion/

Join by 11:59pm Pacific October 1st and you’ll receive a private 30-minute Cosmic Matchmaking Download Session with me, plus your own bespoke Bring in Beloved meditation, recorded specifically for you + your love life.

Available with pay in full or payment plan.

     

In this episode, I’m pulling back the curtain on one of my secret sauces: Cosmic Matchmaking.

I’m sharing real examples of what I notice in my clients’ energy, attraction patterns, dating strategy, texts, profiles + relationships, and how one tiny detail can reveal the thing that’s been keeping love stuck.

Sometimes you think they’re not interested…and I can see that you’re giving them nothing to work with. 😂

Sometimes you want help getting someone...and I’m wondering why we’re spending our precious energy on them at all.

And sometimes you’re ready to walk away from something that I can see has real potential.

I’m a systems nerd, Harvard MBA, chemical engineer + deeply intuitive witch. This is where all of those parts of me get to play together. ✨

💗 Divine Union Delivered is open: https://violetlange.com/divineunion/

Join by 11:59pm Pacific October 1st and you’ll receive a private 30-minute Cosmic Matchmaking Download Session with me, plus a bespoke Bring in Beloved meditation created specifically for you and your love life.

Available with pay-in-full on payment plan.

     

In this episode, I’m sharing what I’ve seen happen when my clients stop gripping love and start participating in it: better strategy, deeper discernment, brave action…and room for magic.

I’ll also share how Jason and I literally met in a dream before we met in real life, why I believe we have more than one soulmate, and a simple embodied practice to loosen your grip on the outcome without letting go of your desire.

Love can surprise you. The magic is real. ✨

💗 Divine Union Delivered is now open: https://violetlange.com/divineunion/

Join my six-month experience to meet your soulmate + create lasting love and soul-shaking intimacy without abandoning yourself, going on a million dates, or lowering your standards.

🏹 3 Archetypes to Arrive from Single to Soulmate in 2027: https://violetlange.com/webinar/

     

So why are you still going to bed alone?

In this episode, Violet explores the painful question underneath so much modern dating: How much more work do I have to do before love actually happens? And what if the next chapter isn’t about fixing yourself—but having different experiences of desire, truth, intimacy, and love?

💌 FREE LIVE WEBINAR: The 3 Archetypes to Move from Single to Soulmate in 2027

https://violetlange.com/webinar/

✨ Explore Divine Union Delivered my new six month program to cross the threshold from endless waiting or discouraging dating into lasting love. Early Bird through October 13th and special bonuses through October 1st.

https://violetlange.com/divineunion/

     

In the final episode of 8 Archetypes for Divine Union, we explore the Harmonizer: the shift from needing someone else to agree with your reality to creating room for two sovereign humans to be different — and still deeply connected.

🎼 Harmony isn't the absence of dissonance. It's the capacity to create something beautiful with difference.

❤️ Ready for what's next? Join me for my free masterclass, 3 Archetypes to Move from Single to Soulmate in 2027.

REGISTER HERE

     

In Archetype 7 of 8 Archetypes for Divine Union, we explore the shift from Self-Betrayer → Erotic Awakener: reclaiming the desires you've edited, the boundaries you've overridden, the anger you've swallowed, and the aliveness that goes underground every time you leave yourself to keep someone else.

Because erotic awakening isn't just about sex.

It's about coming fully alive—and being loved while you're actually there.

🔥 Love Harmonics is happening now, and late enrollment is still open. Join me for six weeks of live ceremony to become the match for extraordinary love for just $69. You'll get the recordings of what you've missed and join us live for everything ahead.

Join Love Harmonics → [LINK]

     

What if you could deeply desire extraordinary love—without gripping how, when, or with whom it has to happen?

In Archetype 6 of 8 Archetypes for Divine Union, we explore the shift from Outcome Chaser → Magic Maker: how to release your demand for certainty, and work with the threads life is actually giving you.

✨ Love Harmonics is happening now—and you can still join us. Step into six weeks of live ceremony to become the match for extraordinary love for just $69. You'll receive the recordings of anything you've missed and can join us live for everything ahead.

Late enrollment closes September 18th.

Join Love Harmonics → [LINK]

     

In Archetype 5 of 8 Archetypes for Divine Union, we explore the shift from Wishful Waiter → Destiny Shaper: the difference between surrender and hiding, why your soulmate needs your participation, and how to take aligned action without trying to control the outcome.

✨ Love Harmonics begins September 10th! If this episode is your own little Destiny Shaper moment, you can still join us for six weeks of live ceremony to become the match for extraordinary love—for just $69.

Join Love Harmonics → [LINK]

     

In Archetype 4 of 8 Archetypes for Divine Union, we explore the shift from Permission Seeker → Truth Keeper: learning to trust your own desires, separate truth from fear and projection, and stop making yourself more palatable just to be chosen.

✨ Ready to create love without abandoning yourself? Join Love Harmonics, my six-week live journey to become the match for extraordinary love, for just $69.

Join Love Harmonics → [LINK]

     

In Archetype 3 of 8 Archetypes for Divine Union, we explore the shift from Over-Achiever → Pleasure Receiver—and what becomes possible when you stop carrying the whole relationship and learn to let love, pleasure, and another person actually come toward you.

✨ Ready to become the match for extraordinary love? Join Love Harmonics, my six-week live journey into the art and science of Divine Union, for just $69.

SPECIAL BONUS ENDS SEPTEMBER 2: Join by Wednesday and you'll also receive my brand-new live, two-hour Trust, Truth & Triggers workshop this October, FREE.

Join Love Harmonics → [LINK]

     

In Archetype 2 of Archetypes for Divine Union, we explore the shift from Pattern Prisoner → Cycle Breaker, and how becoming The Author can help you change patterns of attraction, stop recreating familiar emotional endings, and begin writing a radically different love story.

✨ Ready to write a new story in love? Join Love Harmonics, my six-week live journey to become the match for extraordinary love, for just $69.

BONUS: Join by September 2nd and you’ll also receive my brand-new live, two-hour Trust, Truth & Triggers workshop this October, FREE.

Join Love Harmonics → [LINK]

     

We begin with The Love Creator: the shift from searching for proof that love exists to becoming an active participant in creating the conditions where love can grow.

In this episode, we explore the metaphor of The Gardener—and what it means to tend the soil, plant the seeds, water what matters, prune away the old, and stop pouring your energy into what cannot grow.

Your initiation: What would the Love Creator do today?

✨ Ready to become the match for the love of your life? Join Love Harmonics, my six-week live journey into extraordinary love. First ceremony is Sept 10th and doors close Sept 18th.

Join Love Harmonics → [LINK]

     

In this episode, I'm taking you into the cosmic side of matchmaking: how to recognize different starseed energies, why I believe complementary energies can create powerful partnerships, and the difference between soulmate and twin-flame connections.

We'll explore the gifts and shadows of different star systems—and how you can use this as one more playful lens for understanding yourself, your beloved, and the relationship you're here to create.

Curious about Cosmic Matchmaking?

Check out my private podcast series, Saturday Night Questions

Ready to create extraordinary love?

Join Love Harmonics, my six-week live experience to become the match for the love of your life.

Join Love Harmonics

     

In this episode, I’m breaking down five of the most common patterns I see in dating and relationships: dating down for safety, being sexually shut down, hiding behind performance, overgiving, and trying to strategize your way into love.

More importantly, we’ll look at how each pattern actually shows up in your love life—and what needs to shift so you can create something different.

Ready to shift your patterns and become the match for extraordinary love?

Join Love Harmonics, my six-week live experience to become the match for the love of your life. Six live ceremonies, just $69.

Join Love Harmonics

     

In this joyful conversation, Anu and Gabe share their cosmic queer love story—from psychedelic visions and dark nights of the soul to a first date in a cemetery, choosing each other, navigating enormous life initiations, and creating a marriage that generates more love, magic, and possibility for everyone around them.

We talk about being fully met, why healthy love can initially feel almost too good, the freedom of creating relationships outside prescribed roles, and what it means to keep choosing each other.

Find Anu at Fire in the Belly Alchemy and IG @fireinthebellyalchemy

Find Gabe at Raven Bodywork and IG @gabrielravengold

Ready to create extraordinary love of your own?

Join Love Harmonics, my six-week live experience to become the match for the love of your life.

Join Love Harmonics: https://violetlange.com/loveharmonics/

     

In this episode, we explore why getting to commitment isn't always about meeting more people or playing the dating game better. Sometimes the very strategies we use to seem desirable—playing it cool, overgiving, hiding what we really want—keep us from creating the relationship we're actually longing for.

I share a client story and the shifts that helped her move from dating spin cycle to a passionate, co-created partnership.

Ready to shift your patterns in love?

Join Love Harmonics, my six-week live experience to become the match for the love of your life—without another year of swiping, settling, or waiting on fate.

Join Love Harmonics https://violetlange.com/loveharmonics/

     

In this episode, I sit down with astrologer and Oath Oracle founder Ayesha Durrani to explore what your birth chart can reveal about relationships, shadow work, self-awareness, and why your chart is never your destiny—it simply points you toward your greatest opportunities for growth and love.

Connect with Ayesha

✨ Free Astrology Guide

✨ Venus Codes Masterclass 80% off!

🎙️ Aquarian Age Business Podcast

📸 Instagram: @oathoracle

Ready to become the match for extraordinary love?

Love Harmonics is my six-week live experience designed to help you break old dating patterns, build healthier attraction, and create the kind of love you've always known was possible.

About Ayesha Durrani

Ayesha Durrani is an astrologer, business mentor, founder of Oath Oracle™, and host of the Aquarian Age Business podcast.

The premise of her work is that our birth chart is the instruction manual for creating our Heaven on Earth. When we live—and do business—in alignment with our energetic blueprint, we become attuned to the rhythm of nature and the cosmos.

Ayesha has served more than 3,000 clients worldwide and generated millions doing what she loves. She supports mystic entrepreneurs in creating sacred success that is deeply aligned, believing that extraordinary outcomes become available when we live in harmony with our astrological blueprint.

     

Listen to the surprising realization that transformed my love life forever, via my own journey from Harvard Business School and executive coaching to becoming a love coach.

You'll learn why dating isn't a numbers game, how childhood patterns quietly shape attraction, and how to become a cycle breaker so you can create extraordinary love.

✨ Ready to become the match for the love of your life?

Join Love Harmonics, my six-week live experience for high-capacity humans who are ready to break old patterns and create healthy, lasting love.

💗 Just $69 • Six live ceremonies • Two bonus Q&As • Lifetime access • Your personalized Divine Union Blueprint

Doors open August 17 and welcome gifts ship on August 24th.

Because your happily ever after begins with you.

     

In this conversation with herbalist Marysia Miernowska, we explore how plant allies, embodied practice, and nervous system regulation can help you break inherited relationship patterns and become more available for healthy, lasting love. I also share my own journey with the plants and how the School of the Sacred Wild changed my relationships, and continues to support my clients to find lasting love.

🌿 Learn more about Marysia's School of the Sacred Wild (registration is now open, with special bonuses available)

💜 Ready to become the match for extraordinary love? Join the Love Harmonics waitlist

     

In this deeply personal episode, I share my own journey of healing from childhood sexual abuse, incest, narcissistic family dynamics, and complex trauma—and the relationship patterns that kept me stuck for years. We explore why talk therapy alone often isn't enough, how attachment wounds shape dating, and the tools that helped me create healthy, lasting love. If you've ever wondered whether your past is keeping you from your future, this episode is for you.

💜 Love Harmonics is my new 6-week live experience to help you become the match for extraordinary love. Through live coaching, embodiment, Family Constellations, ceremony, and your personalized Divine Union Blueprint, you'll repattern the unconscious dynamics that keep you stuck in love.

✨ Just $69

✨ Six live ceremonies + bonus Q&As

✨ Lifetime access to the recordings

✨ Doors open August 17 (join by August 24 to receive a beautiful welcome gift in the mail!)

👉 Join the waitlist for Love Harmonics Here

     

In this inspiring conversation, I'm joined by Julie Parker—founder of The Beautiful You Coaching Academy, Australia's leading life coach training organization. For more than two decades, Julie has mentored thousands of coaches, counsellors, and sacred leaders around the world, and is an award-winning author, speaker, and host of two top-ranking podcasts.

Together, we explore self-authorship, inherited stories, sacred leadership, and why the quality of our relationships begins with the relationship we have with ourselves. Whether you're longing for extraordinary love, building a purpose-driven business, or simply wanting to live more authentically, this conversation is full of wisdom.

Connect with Julie's Sacred & Sovereign coaching program

✨ Join the Love Harmonics waitlist

     

In this episode, I share the blueprint for Divine Union, why trauma and conditioning distort our experience of love, and how becoming the match (instead of seeking, searching, swiping, or settling) changes everything.

Together, we're remembering the blueprint for Divine Union... and reclaiming extraordinary love.

✨ Love Harmonics opens August 17. Join the waitlist

     

Violet explores one of the deepest fears many women carry: What if time is running out? She shares why you don't have to settle for the wrong partner just to have a baby, the many beautiful pathways to parenthood available today, and how to date from your deepest values instead of panic, scarcity or shame.

You'll also learn why fear of repeating your parents' mistakes can quietly block your path to love, and how healing those patterns can help you create the family you've always envisioned.

Whether you're hoping to meet your soulmate first, become a single parent by choice, build a blended family, or simply keep your options open, this episode offers hope, practical perspective, and a new way to think about your future.

Join Love Harmonics waitlist

     

If you've ever wondered why someone can look perfect on paper but still not feel like home,

or if you've ever heard you're intimidating or too picky,

or if you're crushing it in your career but just can't seem to figure out love, this episode is for you.

Here I explore why many accomplished women unknowingly approach dating the way they approach work—leading with strategy, competence, and self-protection instead of allowing genuine connection to unfold. But without settling.

We unpack the hidden cost of dating from your head instead of your heart, why your checklist may be masking a deeper longing, and how to discern character, emotional availability, and true compatibility beyond what's impressive on paper.

Join the Love Harmonics waitlist

     

So why does love still feel harder than it should?

In this episode, I explore how fear—not lack of worthiness—is often the invisible force shaping our love lives. We unpack the four nervous system survival responses (flight, fight, freeze, and fawn), how they quietly influence dating and relationships, and what it takes to move from survival into genuine connection.

If you're tired of swiping, overthinking, or feeling like you're always repeating the same patterns, this conversation will give you a completely different way of understanding what's happening—and what to do next.

Join the Love Harmonics waitlist -- doors open August 17th, sign up by August 24th & get a free gift!

     

But what if that story is keeping you stuck?

In this episode, I explore why shame quietly keeps so many people passive in their love lives, why dating requires the same courage and growth as any meaningful part of life, and how becoming more embodied, authentic, and emotionally available completely changes the way we attract love.

I also share part of my own journey before meeting Jason—and why learning new relationship skills changed everything.

If you're ready to stop waiting and start creating the love you desire, this episode is for you.

Join the Love Harmonics waitlist

     

In this deeply personal episode, Violet shares how old trust wounds, sexual trauma, collective grief, and relationship triggers unexpectedly resurfaced after more than a decade with her husband—and how, instead of walking away, they chose a new path of honesty, attunement, nervous system healing, and profound intimacy.

If you've ever wondered whether your relationship is truly over—or whether there's another invitation beneath the trigger—this conversation is for you.

❤️‍🔥 Curious about working together?

• Apply for 6 Months to Soulmate, a cosmic matchmaking opportunity for Divine Union

• Join the waitlist for the next cohort of The Love Field

• Or be the first to hear about Love Harmonics, a new experience coming this Fall on delicious dating for Divine Union. Six weeks of ceremonies, Q&As, and your own Love Harmonics Ritual kit all for just $69. Plus bring a friend and come for free. Let's create a global revolution of love.

     

In this episode, Violet shares the deeper story of meeting her husband, Jason—from a dream three weeks before they met in real life to the inner work that made their connection possible. She explores the role of shadow work, embodiment, sensuality, visibility, and wholehearted self-expression in creating the kind of love that doesn't just find you—but recognizes you.

If you're ready to stop searching for love and start becoming the person love can actually find, this episode is for you.

❤️‍🔥 Ready to go deeper?

• Apply for 6 Months to Soulmate, a cosmic matchmaking opportunity for Divine Union

• Join the waitlist for the next cohort of The Love Field

• Or be the first to hear about Love Harmonics, a new experience coming this Fall on delicious dating for Divine Union. Six weeks of ceremonies, Q&As, and your own Love Harmonics Ritual kit all for just $69. Plus bring a friend and come for free. Let's create a global revolution of love.

     

A thriving veterinary practice. Strong friendships. A deep commitment to the people and animals she loved.

But somewhere along the way, she had become so busy caring for everyone else that there was very little room left for love.

In this episode of Real Love Stories, Violet shares how one woman stopped overgiving, reconnected to her own needs, and discovered that receiving love requires a different kind of courage than earning it.

Together, they didn't focus on finding the right partner. They focused on embodiment, boundaries, pleasure, and creating a life that could actually hold the love she was asking for.

Then, in the most unlikely place, she met a man who could truly meet her—and a whole new chapter began.

Want the reflection prompts, practices, and mini-dare that accompany this episode? Join the free Real Love Happens experience at violetlange.com/real

Ready for your own love story this season? Learn more about The Love Field at violetlange.com/thelovefield

     

And yet, there was still a part of her that felt slightly disconnected—from herself, from her body, and from the kind of love she truly wanted.

In this episode of Real Love Stories, Violet shares how one woman uncovered an old survival pattern, learned to listen to her own needs, and discovered that the deepest relationship transformation wasn't about finding love—it was about fully inhabiting her own life.

Together, they didn't focus on finding a partner. They focused on embodiment, self-trust, desire, and learning to honor what was true for her instead of settling for what was merely available.

What followed was not only a deeply aligned partnership, but a richer relationship with her work, her purpose, and herself.

Want the reflection prompts, practices, and mini-dare that accompany this episode? Join the free Real Love Happens experience at violetlange.com/real

Ready for your own love story this season? Learn more about The Love Field at violetlange.com/thelovefield

     

She knew how to keep a conversation going, how to stay desirable, and how to make a good impression. But despite plenty of dates, nothing ever seemed to become the kind of love she actually wanted.

In this episode of Real Love Stories, Violet shares how one woman stopped treating love like a game, put down the performance, and discovered the power of being fully herself.

Together, they didn't focus on better dating strategies. They focused on vulnerability, authenticity, and the courage to let herself be seen.

Then one honest conversation revealed the difference between chemistry and real connection—and changed the course of her love life.

Want the reflection prompts, practices, and mini-dare that accompany this episode? Join the free Real Love Happens experience at violetlange.com/real

Ready for your own love story this season? Learn more about The Love Field at violetlange.com/thelovefield

     

The challenge wasn't learning how to love. It was learning how to stop giving her love away to women who couldn't truly receive it.

In this episode of Real Love Stories, Violet shares how one woman transformed heartbreak into discernment, stopped falling in love with potential, and learned to trust what people were actually showing her.

Together, they didn't focus on finding the perfect woman. They focused on self-worth, boundaries, nervous system healing, and the courage to walk away sooner when something wasn't aligned.

What emerged wasn't just a healthy relationship—it was a completely different way of loving.

Want the reflection prompts, practices, and mini-dare that accompany this episode? Join the free Real Love Happens experience at violetlange.com/real

Ready for your own love story this season? Learn more about The Love Field at violetlange.com/thelovefield

     

But after years of motherhood, caregiving, and putting everyone else's needs first, she had lost touch with something essential: her own desire.

In this episode of Real Love Stories, Violet shares how one woman rekindled intimacy in a marriage that had gone five years without sex—not by forcing herself to want more, but by reconnecting to her body, her pleasure, and her aliveness.

Together, they didn't start with sex. They started with sensation, self-awareness, emotional truth, and the courage to reclaim ALL of herself.

What happened next transformed not only her marriage, but her relationship with herself.

Want the reflection prompts, practices, and mini-dare that accompany this episode? Join the free Real Love Happens experience at violetlange.com/real

Ready for your own love story this season? Learn more about The Love Field at violetlange.com/thelovefield

     

Too passionate. Too outspoken. Too intense.

In this episode of Real Love Stories, Violet shares how one woman stopped shrinking herself to fit other people's comfort and discovered that real love doesn't require us to become less—it asks us to become more fully ourselves.

Together, they didn't focus on becoming more palatable or more agreeable. They focused on boundaries, discernment, self-worth, and learning to recognize the difference between intensity and commitment.

What followed wasn't a whirlwind romance. It was something much rarer: a love that could grow alongside the fullness of who she was.

Want the reflection prompts, practices, and mini-dare that accompany this episode? Join the free Real Love Happens experience at violetlange.com/real

Ready for your own love story this season? Learn more about The Love Field at violetlange.com/thelovefield

     

Unavailable men. Complicated men. Men who made love feel uncertain, intense, and just out of reach.

In this episode of Real Love Stories, Violet shares how one woman stopped chasing chemistry that led to heartbreak and began creating the conditions for something lasting.

Together, they didn't focus on finding the right man. They focused on changing what her nervous system recognized as connection, attraction, and love.

Then one date—and an unexpected second chance—changed everything.

Want the reflection prompts, practices, and mini-dare that accompany this episode? Join the free Real Love Happens experience at violetlange.com/real

Ready for your own love story this season? Learn more about The Love Field at violetlange.com/thelovefield

     

At 40 years old, she had never experienced the kind of intimacy, desire, and connection she longed for.

In this episode of Real Love Stories, Violet shares how one woman slowly rebuilt trust in her body, healed the effects of trauma, and discovered that love didn't require her to override her fear—it required her to stay with herself through it.

Together, they didn't focus on finding a partner. They focused on safety, embodiment, self-trust, and reconnecting Deborah to parts of herself she had long left behind.

Within a year, she met a man who was both hot and safe—and her life changed forever.

Want the reflection prompts, practices, and mini-dare that accompany this episode? Join the free Real Love Happens experience at violetlange.com/real

Ready for your own love story this season? Learn more about The Love Field at violetlange.com/thelovefield

     

It hadn't.

In this episode of Real Love Stories, Violet shares how one man stopped trying to be everything for everyone, got clear about what he truly wanted, and discovered that love was waiting on the other side of that clarity.

Together, they didn't focus on becoming a better man. They focused on desire, direction, presence, and the courage to choose the life he actually wanted.

A week before a wedding in Europe, an unexpected encounter in Italy changed everything.

Want the reflection prompts, practices, and mini-dare that accompany this episode? Join the free Real Love Happens experience at violetlange.com/real

Ready for your own love story this season? Learn more about The Love Field's Hot Love Summer at violetlange.com/thelovefield

     

In this first episode of Real Love Stories, Violet shares how one woman reconnected to herself, reopened to life, and discovered that love was closer than she imagined.

Together, they didn't start with dating apps or strategy. They started somewhere much deeper: hope, aliveness, presence, and embodiment.

Two months later, a simple moment in a coffee shop changed everything.

Want the reflection prompts, practices, and mini-dare that accompany this episode? Join the free Real Love Happens experience at violetlange.com/real

Ready for your own love story this season? Learn more about The Love Field at violetlange.com/thelovefield

     

From soulmate fantasies and twin flame obsession to emotional availability, nervous system safety, and real embodied partnership, this conversation invites us to ask:

Are we loyal to old love stories…or available for love now? ❤️‍🔥

Sign up for the May 31st workshop, Healing with the Masculine

Join me for 10 Days of Summer Love.

Learn more and join us in The Love Field's Hot Love Summer

     

In this episode, Violet explores the difference between sensing love energetically and becoming truly available for it in real life. She dives into emotional availability, embodiment, nervous system openness, visibility, archetypal attraction, relational patterns, and the practical ways we can participate in love instead of just waiting for it.

This conversation is for anyone who feels like love is close…but not quite landing yet. ❤️‍🔥

Sign up for the May 31st workshop, Healing with the Masculine

Join me for 10 Days of Summer Love

Learn more and join us in The Love Field's Hot Love Summer

     

In this episode, Violet explores the deeper emotional, relational, hormonal, and spiritual reasons we lose desire over time… and how soulful sexuality can continue evolving for years.

From parenting, resentment, trauma, and nervous system shutdown to erotic blueprints, transparency, fantasy, healing, and life-force energy, this conversation explores what it really takes to keep intimacy alive.

Because thriving sex isn’t about perfection or performance.

It’s about aliveness, honesty, embodiment, and continuing to meet each other as you evolve.

Sign up for the May 31st workshop, Healing with the Masculine

Join me for 10 Days of Summer Love

Learn more and join us in The Love Field's Hot Love Summer

     

Sign up for the May 31st workshop, Healing with the Masculine

Join me for 10 Days of Summer Love

Learn more and join us in The Love Field's Hot Love Summer

     

In this episode, Violet explores the difference between intuition and spiritual bypassing in love. A deep conversation about sovereignty, nervous systems, embodiment, destiny, relational patterns, and why lasting love is not something we predict — it’s something we participate in creating. 

Sign up for the May 31st workshop, Healing with the Masculine

Join me for 10 Days of Summer Love

Learn more and join us in The Love Field's Hot Love Summer

     

In this episode, Violet explores the difference between abandoning yourself for approval… and allowing love to transform you into more of who you truly are. From attraction patterns to archetypes, polarity, desire, and the stories we inherit about relationships, this is an invitation to soften the defenses that keep love out — without losing yourself in the process. 

Sign up for the May 31st workshop, Healing with the Masculine

Join me for 10 Days of Summer Love

Learn more and join us in The Love Field's Hot Love Summer

     

In this episode, Violet shares the 4 Ds of Dating — a framework for approaching love in a more alive, embodied, and spiritually connected way:

Determined. Devoted. Desire-driven. Dynamic.

This conversation explores how to stop dating from fear, cynicism, and burnout — and start approaching love as a practice of aliveness, authenticity, pleasure, and growth.

If you want love but hate dating, this episode is for you.

Sign up for the May 31st workshop, Healing with the Masculine

Join me for 10 Days of Summer Love

Learn more and join us in The Love Field's Hot Love Summer

     

Because healthy love isn’t about perfection.

It’s about truth, growth, aliveness, and the courage to stop abandoning yourself in the name of staying.

Sign up for the May 31st workshop, Healing with the Masculine

Join me for 10 Days of Summer Love

Learn more and join us in The Love Field's Hot Love Summer

     

In this episode of Bold Love & Soulful Sex, Violet Lange explores why we repeat painful relationship dynamics — and how to finally shift them. From nervous system wiring and childhood conditioning to chemistry, attraction, and embodied communication, this episode dives into the deeper roots of love patterns and the micro-experiments that can change them.

Because healthy love isn’t about luck.

It’s about learning how to create new experiences of connection that teach your body something different.

Sign up for the May 31st workshop, Healing with the Masculine

Join me for 10 Days of Summer Love

Learn more and join us in The Love Field's Hot Love Summer

     

Sign up for the May 31st workshop, Healing with the Masculine

Join me for 10 Days of Summer Love

Learn more and join us in The Love Field's Hot Love Summer

     

Sign up for the May 31st workshop, Healing with the Masculine

Join me for 10 Days of Summer Love

Learn more and join us in The Love Field's Hot Love Summer

     

Sign up for the May 31st workshop, Healing with the Masculine

Join me for 10 Days of Summer Love

Learn more and join us in The Love Field's Hot Love Summer

     

Fun fact, I was coaching Zev's now wife when the two of them met romantically, and now they've been together for 4 years. The magic is real! 

If you're intrigued by Zev's work, you can connect with him at the links below:

• Free Matchmaking Form -- sign up to be on his list: lovezev.com/join
• Instagram
• Facebook

     

In this episode, I’m sharing a deeper, embodied conversation about love:

not the fantasy version we’re sold,

not the pressure-filled performance we see on social media,

but the kind of love that lives in the body… and is actually sustainable.

Toward the end of the episode, I introduce Love, Integrated — my new 12-week initiation into embodied partnership, offered through three pathways:

1. Sacred Cohort (group experience)
2. Mentored Path (group + private Love Recalibration sessions)
3. Private Mentorship (fully bespoke 1:1 container)

Love, Integrated is not a course.

It’s a recalibration of how love lives in your body — working with nervous system regulation, attachment patterns, archetypes, polarity, lineage healing, shadow integration, and relational devotion.

If something in your body is recognizing itself as you listen, trust that.

You can learn more or book a free connection call here:

violetlange.com/loveintegrated

     

Learn more and join us for the Spring 2026 cohort at heartofshadow.com/women.

     

Learn more about, and join, her program helping women to THRIVE through menopause at Your Invitation to THRIVE

     

If you’ve ever wondered why the spark faded or why connection feels harder than it used to, this episode will help you understand what’s actually happening—and what to do about it before you lose years to autopilot.​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​

Join our free connection date night for couples at https://evolutionarycouples.us/evolutionofus

Learn more about our programs Evolutionary Couples and 12 Epic Dates at https://evolutionarycouples.us

     

Join our FREE connection night for couples at https://evolutionarycouples.us/evolutionofus

Join our 12 Epic Dates and/or Evolutionary Couples programs at https://evolutionarycouples.us

     

Whether you're newlyweds or celebrating decades together, this episode is your roadmap to unprecedented sexual connection.

• Join our LIVE cohort of our Evolutionary Couples program at https://evolutionarycouples.us
• Short on time? You can also experience 12 Epic Dates at your own pace and reignite the fire of your relationship

     

Find out more about Evolutionary Couples which starts October 19th and has Early Bird until October 7th, and sign up for 12 Epic Dates anytime at https://evolutionarycouples.us

     

The truth is relationships can be incredibly challenging, especially in today’s fast-paced world where it can be hard to prioritize the relationship. Even when partners deeply love each other, they may face difficulties in maintaining passion, resolving conflicts, and growing together over the long term. Many couples are stuck in unfulfilling patterns, feeling more like roommates than lovers, or constantly bickering over small issues. Without the right tools and support, it’s easy for relationships to stagnate or deteriorate over time.

My husband Jason and I created the Evolutionary Couples program as a structured experience to help couples revitalize their relationships and foster deeper connection. Through 12 carefully designed “epic dates,” couples are guided to explore key areas like communication, intimacy, finances, and shared purpose. The journey provides a mix of themed dates addressing practical issues and polarity dates to reignite passion and play. With options for self-paced learning or a more immersive experience with coaching and community support, couples can choose the level of engagement that works for them. By dedicating just two hours a week to intentional relationship building, partners can develop new skills, heal old wounds, and cultivate a thriving, passionate partnership that just keeps improving over time!

Learn more and sign up at evolutionarycouples.us

     

Tune in to hear more about Wild Sensuality including details on my upcoming retreat in November: https://violetlange.com/wild-sensuality-retreat/

     

For more practice and support in this area, check out my Wild Sensuality retreat at https://violetlange.com/wild-sensuality-retreat/ or my Sacred Sensuality program https://violetlange.com/sacred-sensuality/

     

We're witnessing an epidemic of sexless relationships — some studies put it at 15% of all marriages. When it comes to sex, sensuality, and a woman's erotic essence, it can be easy to lose.

One way this can show up is as mismatched desire. A man wants sex with his woman (i.e. wants to know, "How do I get my wife to have sex with me more?"), but she's not feelin' it. Maybe she feels like her libido is low. Maybe she wants to figure out whether there's something wrong with her — isn't it her wifely duty to "provide sex" to her husband/man?

Here, we delve into the pattern of losing one's erotic essence as well as the delicious ways to reclaim it. YES, it is possible to get that sexy, sassy, soulful passion back — both in a relationship as well as just in your own body.

If you’re interested in staying in the loop about the program we reference at the end of this episode, reach out at https://violetlange.com/contact

     

IG: @carenchroma

https://www.carenchroma.com/

     

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